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What I found difficult with that is how although people haven't treated me particularly different because of my sexuality, they do try and connect constantly with someone who I don't identify with now. That's challenging because it's a.) triggering for a multitude of reasons and b.) because I want to be seen and accepted for who I am now, not someone who was deeply unhappy.

It isn't something anyone will really understand if they don't have to come out but also, I don't even think queer monosexuals will understand it from a bi+ perspective.

To have to try always to be outwardly bi, reaffirm your identity and be apparently queer on hetero spaces and then continue to defend yourself in queer spaces too.