The whole world is a big box that has many smaller boxes that are labeled. You can find there idiots and geniuses. Woman and man. Black and white. Christian and satanist. Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, transexual etc.
Why do we limit ourselves to this when we can do much much more. Do we have one box in our head telling us what we are? Why limit ourselves to empty statuses that will never ever grasp our being. All differences makes us unique and exquisite, that is undeniable. However we forgot that we change, we evolve and sometimes degrade. Though that’s all right. We are only humans. We make mistakes, we make miracles and WE HAPPEN.
There is no label for us. We can take our special form. Choice is ours. We have no need to label it. Yeah we might form groups because we will still have some similarities, but we will never be the same. And there’s no shame in incapability of grasping our inner-selves. We’re not suppose to. We should just live our life happily being ourselves no matter the society. No matter the labels and life standards. Do what makes you you. Do what makes you emotional. Be who you want to be. Be who you choose to be.
People tell you you’re ugly, wrong, stupid, useless? Their opinion, not yours. You are the one who chooses what’s right and wrong. You give others the power over you. No one can shame you, humiliate you, until you give them power to do so.
There is one special flaw among many made by society. Let’s call them templates. We have lifestyle templates, appearance templates, behavior templates, relationship templates and so on. We grow up trying to live up to those images, trying to fulfill expectations that we were brainwashed by. Mass media helped as always. In the end it won’t matter if you weren’t perfect human being the way others hoped you to be. Only thing that will matter is if you can positively answer next question when you will be dying, no matter at which age.
“Were you the one living your life and making your own decisions?“
And bear in mind that no matter how horrible choices you made (by social morals bad), there are no real bad nor good choices. There are only YOUR choices.
So live with that and be proud to be yourself no matter who you choose to be never needing it to be labeled. ‘Cause we are not that simple nor that narrow-minded.
