I see all the wangxian family posts and my heart melts. It comes to my head and I try to empathize with what Lan Wangji and Wei WuXian are feeling when they're thinking about A-yuan and I just realized that I don't wanna have children because I associate children/young family with poverty and difficult times. I am also adopted and my mom was very poor at the time, she told me all the difficulties she went through, i told her "but you didn't have to! Why did you adopt a baby? Why did you make your life harder than it already was?" and she always replies "i just loved you since the first time I saw you and that was it" I think this happens a lot. I can imagine Wei WuXian seeing A-yuan for the first time and how he fell in love and decided to take care of him just because (his selfless nature also influenced this) it kinda gave Wwx a purpose to work harder to feed and keep baby A-yuan happy. The same with Lan Wangji: he was weirded out at first bc A-yuan cried out loud in public but then wwx came with "this is my son/i gave birth to this child" and a window opened in Lwj's mind "I can... Be a father??? The father of the son of the love of my life!!! What can I do?? Buy him toys?? Feed him??? Educate him??? Yes!!! He already likes me, Wei Ying!! Im officially his father!!!! Yes, I love it, i love baby, i love us!!!"
My romantic soul can't help to find this beautiful and pure. I have never thought about it. I love Wangxian even more because LOVE, pure and solid LOVE they feel even with all the terrible things they went through!!
