#beccabooboom

So for the positivity thing, this is gonna start out rocky but hear me out. 2017 was the yr my life fell apart. My mental health hit an all time low, I had to be hospitalized. My marriage fell apart & I had to move across the country from everyone I knew & loved to start over & get back on my feet. & it was hard, harder than even in my lowest moments I could have anticipated. BUT!

Being hospitalized led to getting on medication for my depression & gave me invaluable resources as far as coping skills & knowing that it’s okay to need help as well as recognizing when it’s time to reach out so I don’t hit that low again.

Leaving my marriage ended up being a massive positive for personal growth. Of course it hurt & it still does. But we had outgrown each other long ago & our relationship was no longer healthy. We were both desperately clinging to something dead & it was time for change.

Moving led to me getting my dream job, making tons of supportive wonderful friends & spending more time with my brother, as well as meeting someone who loves me dearly for who I am now & who I’m striving to become.

Sometimes when things look bad & everything has fallen apart, it’s because your life was wrong & it’s time for things to change. Every day & every situation is a chance for you to do & make something new & wonderful happen in your life if you stick around & keep fighting thru the bullshit long enough to see the beautiful outcome!