#bear bitch

maybe unpopular opinion but i kinda hate transfem ralsei. NOT because i hate trans women or transfem headcannons in NO FUCKING WAY am i saying that, its about ralsei IN PARTICULAR. unlike a lot of transfem hcs he literally shows absolutely no signs of wanting 9f needing to be effeminate. im not even going down the path of this being a problem because immediately seeing ANY effeminate guy as having to be a girl IS misogynistic in that it enforces the idea that girls are one way and guys are another and if you aren't the "right" way you must be trans etc etc, hea just not fucking effeminate and i stand by that. he's nice. ive literally never understood people thinking he's a girl bc he says hes a prince like 5 seconds after meeting you. he never does anything feminine or anything. he's literally just a nice fucking person. new transfem ralsei hc culture just feels like when ch1 came out and people refused to believe he wasn't a girl for like, four months. like its so fucking weird. also even if he was feminine AGAIN, automatically making any feminine guy transfem reinforces gender roles and devalues both what it means to be trans and what it means to be a woman into "looks/ acts a certain way". anyway if ur transfem and a ralsei kin disregard everything i said you in particular are correct. everyone else take a moment to consider WHY you think ralsei is transfem and if the answer isn't just whimsy and its bc he's effeminate/ kind then maybe think abt that. transgirls projecting onto the silly keep going and remember that you matter and are worth more then what you can do for others and sleep so tight and safe and comfy.

yall will say you want queer people and poc people and fat people to be more represented and then make exclusively mlm or wlw OCS that are skinny and white and mono and have entirely binary gender expressions and identitys and were born either amab or afab and i just think maybe you don't understand that queer is a large spectrum and ALL of it needs representation. and like even when i do see poc ocs they are almost never anything other then "this character is black" in a way that feels very token. like they knew that they didn't have enough poc characters so they added a Black one. where are the mixed ocs. where are the mixed ocs that aren't mixed with white. characters whos parents are a veit and an African American. or a Korean and a Nigerian. its because people still don't view interracial relationships as typical. every time you default to making your queer ocs be in a monogamous relationship with entirely binary genders and white an angel loses its wings.

i think they're gya but like. evil style. also btw people can like m/m ships and not ignore female characters or be misogynistic (I've been seeing people complaining). ultimately fav deltarune ships are suslle and kerdly, neither of which are m/m ships, and also im honestly more likely to ship m/m pairings when it makes otherwise uninteresting storylines feel more complete, and all the other female characters in deltarune feel very complete and self-fulfilled without a ship. even suselle are compelling on their own but have a deeper story element with their relationship, same with Kerdly. imo,(note: ive not finished ch 5) flowery really doesn't serve a story perpous or have a very deep character beyond his infatuation with asgore, which can be complex, deep, and interesting! but only if we take the time to actually explore it.

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