T, J, M, A, R, I, N, (look they are the letters of the m&ms + tj candy members okay this is dumb)
You adorable little dork thank youĀ
T: How do you know itās time to end a relationship?
Iām terrible at ending relationships. Even when itās been really unhealthy in the past and is extremely damaging to me so many I just let it simmer down and hope people donāt call me or try and rekindle things when itās bad. But I also stop talking randomly even if I like people so donāt take that as a hint I donāt want to be friends Iām sorry Iām weird.Ā
But like there was this one guy who would call me like five times a day and leave me messages on all social media he had and multiple voicemails and I felt bad for him because he didnāt have friends, or a good home, and he was mentally broken but I was legit just scared of him following me home so I stopped talking to him and had support from bros saying donāt be a little bitch just leave it, he moved youāre fine he canāt do anything.
J: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings
I fall way too hard way too fast to ever be able to handle just flings so Iām more in it for serious relationships.
M: Whatās one thing you regret saying or not saying, doing or not doing in a previous relationship?
Well in previous relationships -talking platonic because Iām in my first romantic relationship right now- I let people walk all over me. So I really wish I could go back and stand up for myself because I just thought if I didnāt do whatever they wanted, whenever they wanted, then I wasnāt a true friend. So like no matter how they treated me I would just leave it like no theyāre all I have I have to deal.
A: Who do you like and why?
Is this like crushes? Or love or what??
Well at my school thereās this girl thatās like hardcore straight and I have such a crush on her and I feel like Iām really obvious about it but she just doesnāt notice and oh my god straight girl crushes are the worst but weāre still good friends so Iāll take it.
basilmunchies -the nerd who sent me this ask-Ā : Mariana is just a precious human being and I would kiss her face if I was allowed
Republicansā¦is that too far? Nah, Iām keeping it.Bullies (mental or physical), not being a feminist, āthey? what are there multiple youās walking aroundā
I: Whatās the most important part of a relationship?
Trust and communication. If thereās no trust then thereās no relationship to begin with, I donāt want to get into the shit I did before where I was called every name in the book and then I would be their best friend when they didnāt have anyone else to be around. I need to be able to trust theyāll be there for me, I can open up to them, and yeah. And communication you need to be able to say if shitās going south so we can work out any problem we have before itās unfixable.
N: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Well even though Iām all for letting people do with their bodies what they want I believe sex should be put off until a person is at least 15. My logic behind that is thereās a mental side to having a relationship thatās intimate because whether or not one cares about their virginity having sex can mess with someone emotionally if theyāre unprepared or pressured into it whether the pressure is explicit or they just feel like they have to. But I strongly believe that people should be educated about sex and the safe way to go about having it beforeĀ they do anything.
Iām sorry this is really long and took me so long to write. But hereās a little more insight to me I guess