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ANTI-TRANS

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As exclusively aimed at, only affecting and only will affect trans women/fems, is fucking dangerous.

Stop lieing and claiming transmascs won't be affected by these laws, let alone the ones that exclusively target them or target them more than anyone. Stop lieing and saying they have privileges they don't

Honey, we know the term you're looking for is female privilege. But for some reason, despite you quite literally describing it in very obvious terms, you won't just say that. Why won't you say it? Why avoid it if that's what you mean? You clearly think there's privileges attached to the female sex that aren't attached to the male sex so why won't you just say female privilege?

Could it be because female privilege is a fucking incel dog whistle?

Could it be because the only group that think being born afab or being born with a vagina/uterus/womb/the capability of pregnancy is a privilege is a mysognistic hate group?

So which is it, are you a cis man whose actually a troll trying to hurt the image of trans women or are you finally ready to admit bad actors have infiltrated your movement and none of you are actually versed enough in feminism to realize you are being lead down a bigoted mysognistic path just because they rebranded themselves as anti-tme/anti-afab instead of anti-woman?

I'm not gonna give them the benefit of pretending to be stupid, they are fully aware transandrophobia, and the fight to destroy it, has nothing to do with MRAs or the incel movement. They know the goals are different, they know trans men face legitimate discrimination. They fucking know these things aren't the same, it's not a genuine belief they hold because they are stupid but they aren't THAT fucking stupid. They know.

They are comparing them maliciously and we need to, genuinely, stop entertaining this distraction. We need to stop writing up big posts pointing out the differences between these movements because they know they aren't the same. We need to stop clarifying the differences because they genuinely don't need to be taught, they know, they just want to catch you up in semantics instead of talking about the actual point. Same as the people who claim trans activism is the same as pedophilia defending or Mysogny.

Those groups don't genuinely believe that, they just like to stop you up and distract you so you don't call them out for whatever they are doing to hurt you with said accusation or stop you from talking about it because you're too busy proving trans rights activism that centers trans men, or trans men's issues in general, are not the same as men's rights activism. They know they aren't the same, they know they don't have the same views, they are just trying to make you stumble to make you look stupid or score some Internet points. It's catchy and easy to throw out a bullshit accusation but it's hard to disprove it without writing an essay about the differences. That's why they do it, it's how bigots attempt to debate or how conspiracy theorists make shit up, they expect you to take the burden of proving them wrong when they need to prove why they say that on sound reasoning. They don't have to prove their beliefs to other people who already hate the group, they aren't even putting in the effort to source their accusations, so don't put in the full effort to disprove them. Just look at them and say " I'm not going to entertain baseless accusations when we both know you don't genuinely believe that.".

I get it if it didn't click for you as an American transfem, we really don't have well known cultural 3rd genders but like ... Most of the other cultures in the world knew this. The indigenous people to the Americas knew this. It's ok if you didn't, genuinely, but I need you to understand that right here right now; those trans men/mascs and afab Nonbinary pple are not lieing to you, they still experience the same shit they experienced as cis women and it's even worse now that they are trans and no longer adhering to their birth sex, same as you. The people telling you otherwise are lieing to you and taking advantage of the pain you've experienced but they are lieing to you all the same. The last time they made this movement, a movement centering trans women that actively hated all "tmes", they defended someone who raped one of our own.

There is light on the other side but you have to let go of that specific "transfem community" that can be found in trans rad feminism. It is built on 2nd wave feminism, the basis for transfeminism, and was discarded because it hurt us. It hurt us, it hurt all LGBT people, it hurt fat women, it hurt sex workers, it hurt disabled women and most of all, it was deeply intrengically racist. If you actually want to make life better for you and all of us transfems, hiding away in communities that value death threats towards other trans people will not make us safer. Others will hate us more and people who wouldn't of hated us, hate us now because that's their only experience with us. No, we don't have to be approachable and open to be accepted but by associating with them, you associate with their hate. Please come out of there, they don't love you, not really.

I will say this again but louder for those trying to scroll pass and those who are hard of hearing.

Even the most passing trans man still faces medical mysogny. No trans men are exempt from experiencing life altering mysogny.

Once more, with bravado.

But it's becoming clearer and clearer by the day that you don't want to acknowledge any other axises of oppression, especially the ones where you would be the oppressor, than the one you are victims of. Y'all don't talk about racism or ableism or classism or perisexism unless it also intersects with transmysogny. " Why am I not allowed to center trans women in my activism? 😠" You are allowed to but you never branch out. Centering means primary concern, they are your ONLY concern and specifically to the detriment of multiple other oppressed groups around you by you either ignoring their oppression, claiming it's less than yours on no evidence or not calling out people who believe the same shit you do when they are otherwise bigoted. That's cult shit. That's supremacist shit.

I don't need to clarify that Im affected by anti-indigenous racism because just being indigenous is obviously the only qualification and I don't need to clarify that I'm exempt from anti-black racism because just not being black is obviously the only exclusion. Same as someone, white or non-indigenous poc, doesn't need to clarify they are exempt from anti-indigenous racism because just not being indigenous is obviously the only exclusion and so on. It's obvious who experiences transmysogny, we don't need to label ourselves as affected or exempt from it.

It should also be mentioned that though obviously anyone is capable of anti-indigenous racism, and I've experienced it from other poc, I can very obviously acknowledge that non-indigenous poc are significantly less likely to enact anti-indigenous racism, even though they and white people are in the same non-indigenous category. Transfeminits claim all groups, trans or cis, are both equally capable and equal enactors of transmysogny and that's just not fucking true. The issue with tma/tme users is that not only are they not using it to go after the biggest causers of transmysogny (CISGENDER MEN) but claim there's a through-line of privilege that cis men, cis women and trans men all experience and that's simply horse shit.

Can we be real and acknowledge the only reason trans radfems/ Transfeminists are treating trans men this way is because they are an acceptable target that doesn't have the social power to bite back? (which would kill the claim that trans men have equal social power to cis men btw) If they actually wanted to go after the people who are causing trans women to go back in the closet, who are the ones beating, raping and murdering trans women, they would be on cis men's fucking asses. Trans men and Cis women are not making these statistics, like not even remotely close, to the damage cis men are causing the transfem community yet the only time they ever bring them up is in forcefem fantasies. Trans men and Cis women, when it comes to the big scary murder statistics transfems face, make up less than 1% of that statistic. Trans men and Cis women simply aren't hurting trans women physically and the physical harm that's constantly being brought up is only being labeled as being caused by "TMES", a grouping that yes, contains cis men that are causing 99.9% of the violence but also including 2 oppressed groups, cis women and trans men, who are causing >.1% of said violence. You need to clarify whose causing the violence, neither cis women nor trans men are abusing trans women to any percentage even in the same solar system as cis men. You are being disingenuous claiming otherwise.

If you want to stop the transmysogny, why aren't you going after cis men? Are you scared? You certainly aren't scared of trans men, so it's not the fear of men you claim to feel, so why aren't you going after them? Why do I never hear a fucking peep out of you about cis men?? Trans men and Cis women have been going after cis men on every forum for decades, why aren't you?