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You may be more academically smarter than me and a lot of your peers but I don’t think you know the first thing about what real life is all about.  You have lived quiet a sheltered life.  You have not given yourself enough time to discover who you really are.  You may think you know better than me but trust me I have been around a lot longer than you.  You have convinced yourself that you want to be a man and NO one has the balls to tell you that we love you just the way you are. You know being strong women is so important we have so much to contribute to the human race!  What you are lacking is the knowledge of ETERNITY!  You are only living for this life.  Let me tell you there IS a God and there IS an afterlife.  You think you are responsible for all the accomplishments you have made but be assured it is from the grace of God.  You need to get down on your knees and pray about what you are about to do.  I say all this because I love you and don’t want you to ruin your life.  Remember your family is a part of you and your choices affects all those you love.  I’m not trying to change you…..I’m trying to make you see that this will have a big impact on the entire family…..sorry sister…it is not all about YOU.  You need to think about all those who love you and how this will really IMPACT their lives.   Don’t be a selfish little brat and think only about yourself.  The fact that you get a lot of negativity should be your first clue perhaps …I am making a mistake. Bet you didn’t know that there was a long period in my life that I wanted so badly to be a man.  Yep…you gotta it.  I dressed in jeans and like a boy and even had my hair done like a boy.  But I listened to my elders and I didn’t want to hurt those I loved so I turned my life around.  Does this surprise you?  Next time you are hear……ask me to show you the pictures.  I am glad I’m women and strong women at that.  I am an example of what all women should be….I’ve achieved more than most men could handle and that makes me proud.  But I could not have done it without the graces of God.  You totally need God in your life!  You know the Catholic Church is not against being gay…it is against the sexual act that the church is against.  The sexual act is for the reproduction of children which gays cannot produce.  Yes it will be hard to be gay and remain faithful to the church teaching but no more than it is for married couples to stay faithful to one partner.  Adultery is the sin and sexual act performed by persons of the same sex is the sin.  So we love the sinner but not the sin.  Pray [Birth name] and asked God what he wants for your life.  Don’t think that at 21 you know what you are doing because trust me you don’t!   Remember ETERNITY is so much long than a few years here on earth.  Where do you want to live the rest of your life?  Seriously think about that..it is real and right now the devil has a great hold on you and convincing you of who you are not. I will always love you and I will pray for you till the day I die but I will never support your desire for a sex change.  It is truly bullshit!  I only want what is best for you and this is not what is best for you.  Sorry I know you didn’t want to hear all this but I really needed to share how I feel.  True love is when you think about others need before your own.  I don’t think you know what true love is since you are not willing to think how your actions will affect those who love you the most! Love YOU Plenty Grandmother