the saying 'out of sight, out of mind' is actually very true. Want to be happy? avoid sad songs, movies about longing for another, books about a sad love that faded. Let some plants into your bedroom, wear that nice outfit you like but you never had the courage to wear in public. Dance how you want to that song on the radio.. you only have one live right now, as long you can breath, nothing is worth crying about for more than one day if you think those things won't help one bit, then you don't have the will to change it. no one else is responsible for your happiness, no one else is responsible for looking after you every day. its your own, make a move, its your life and no one will live it beside you













