hey !! i recently found your page and i’m in love with your fics :) could i request a nsfw headcanons in a relationship with kiyotaka ayanokouji? if he minds pda, how intimate he is, if he does the first move and such, for example! thank you, have a great day <3
Notes: sorry this took forever
Warnings: NSFW, MDNI
Characters involved: Kiyotaka Ayanokoji
Gender-neutral reader, you/yours
Kiyotaka has never really had a high libido. This mainly has to do with the white room but also the fact that he doesn't really see the importance of sex.
For him, the only significance it has is to procreate but since he doesn't want children, that just gives him another reason to hold no interest in sex.
However, if the two of you were in a relationship, then he completely understands that you would have some sexual needs that need to be met.
His first thought is to allow you to fulfil those needs elsewhere. He doesn't really mind the idea of an open relationship, especially since the two of you are probably dating as some sort of scheme rather than an actual relationship.
But Kiyotaka knows you wouldn't be fine with that. He knows that you hold some semblance of an emotional attachment to him, which is why he does have sex with you from time to time. It's just that he generally does it for you and not himself.
This is why he can often be viewed as a pleasure dom since he makes it all about you.
Kiyotaka knows enough about sex to be able to adequately satisfy you, and over time he also learns your sexual likes and dislikes.
He can be very insightful so he can tell when you want to try something but won't verbally say it.
If you ever want to try and please him then he's open to it but it would definitely be a new experience for him. Don't be surprised if it takes a little while for him to actually get into it.
He's the same with PDA. If that's something you're into then he'll be open to doing it, but Kyotaka isn't interested in it.
Kiyotaka's go-to is normally just an arm around your waist but if you're into something more or he's in a situation where he needs to be affectionate in front of others then he's fine with kissing your neck.
This is normally followed by whispers about his plan or what he needs you to do.
Kiyotaka might not have a very high libido, but at the end of the day, he's also human and does get horny every once in a while.
In these situations, he can be surprisingly forward about his needs.
Kiyotaka understands why people would normally be bashful about voicing such needs but he doesn't really feel embarrassed about it.
