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I’m sorry sorry I haven’t been on lately. Due to the homies season it’s been very busy at my job. I’ll respond to more questions Asap. #asklink

There are so many wonderful and strong people on this site!! I only posted a picture but you found hour strength and that’s so amazing. Thank you for your support but more thank you for being strong. #asklink

Thank you so much for your support. I never know what else to say to such lovely support but I wish I did 💕💕🐙💕 #asklink

Anon: thanks for the cute gifs! they cheered me up and were very helpfu Link: Thank you for being so strong and allowed the content I posted to help you. Thank you also for your support 💕🐙 #asklink

Anon: I saw one of your gifs and its absolutely amazing that you are willing to do that for people. You are a beautiful person. I just was wondering if you could give me some advice.. Today I told my mother that I was anorexic. She looked at me and told me that I was too fat to be anorexic and that I don't need help and that I eat way too much. I can't even look at her or myself without crying and I haven't eaten all week. I'm starting to get dizzy from standing now and I don't know what to do anymore Link: Alright, consider talking to a therapist at school/college. Next, she must not know about eating disorders or wasn't listened to when younger. I'm sorry about how the situation went. Maybe you could write her a letter explaining everything and how she made you feel. I'm sure she doesn't want to lose you. Parents use "it's a phase" because they are scared to handle the situation so they don't want to. Next, starving won't help you lose weight but gain. When you starve your body goes into panic mode then stores fat when you eat. You need to raise your metabolism and eat meals and little snacks in the middle. Cardio will help keep you fit. Work on being healthy and not skinny. #asklink

Anon: Im probably bothering you but recently I've been bothered by my dad constantly calling me fat he doesn't just casually mention it he literally calls me fat as if it's my name. Ive started to question my sexuality which definitely isn't good since my parents are both homophobic my dad probably to the point of kicking me or my sister who has come out to me out of the house. Hearing my dads racist sexist homophobic and fatphobic comments have made me start considering self harm and suicide. Link: There is a lot to handle so you need a game plan. First, have you considered therapy, counseling or talking to a social worker. This isn't right at all. I can relate to a parent constantly calling you names because I dealt with it. I won't say I know how you feel because I don't. Everyone deals with things their own way. He is a bully and there are many ways to deal with a bully. My personal favorite is to laugh at them. When people say stuff about my thighs I laugh and say "aren't they fabulous?" I'm a bigger girl so parts of me are thick. His opinion only has power if you allow it to have power. So next time he says something give a "no fucks given" attitude. *looks under table* *opens door* him:what are you doing? You: trying to find the cares I give. I can't find any. I'm a smart ass so I'd do that. When he says it you could say nothing, give a "fuck you look" or say "that's not true so it doesn't bother me." When you get upset he's getting what he wants, power over you. If he points out flaws tell him every part of you is beautiful and fabulous. As for him being ignorant there isn't much you can do. I don't know your age but while you're in his house you need to keep the peace and let him be an ass. When you leave tell him about himself and go on from there. #asklink

Anon: Hey, I just wanted to say thank you. I happened to be looking through some tags that aren't gonna help at all, and then I saw your post. So thank you for reminding me about what's bad. Plus you like Zelda, so you're awesome. Have a wonderful day! Link: I am indeed awesome 💕🐙💕💕 Thank you for your support! I am sorry you looked up those tags. I glad you were strong enough to realize what's good and bad. You're very strong. #asklink