#askertorte

One of the misconceptions that I find to be particularly interesting is that witchcraft, cunningcraft, herbalism, whatever you wish to call it, was a primarily female endeavor. Actually, witchcraft was used by men and women alike. It was a way to make a bit of money for people who were otherwise disenfranchised, so the male witches, so to speak, were often disabled or queer men who were locked out of traditional industry. We know this because of court records at the time. We see about a 50-50 split (within a margin of error, of course) of men and women convicted for witchcraft and witchcraft-adjacent crimes. As a disabled queer man who practices witchcraft himself, I felt very represented.

yeah. pride flag for people morally opposed to sauce on schnitzel

to completion? because I think that might impact the answer

Never combine finances. If it sucks hit da bricks. Don't do husband shit for a man who isn't your husband. Even if he is your husband, divorce is very stylish. Words count for less than nothing. Only actions matter. Insist upon your own space. Insist upon your own life. If he shits on your joy, shit on him. If you desperately want to go somewhere or do something and he's hemming and hawing, like if you really want to go to Italy and he's like "we'll see", well. I don't know what he'll see, but you'll be seeing Italy. Get some friends together or go yourself. A man doesn't necessarily have to be a bad person to be bad for you. If he isn't in alignment with what you want and need for yourself, respectfully (or disrespectfully) let him go. The only person who has to live with your life choices is you etc etc etc etc etc

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this scene transpires more than you could ever possibly imagine