#askday

What do your OCs do on their birthdays?

Jaxon May Alder

that’s a hard question.I have no clue.From conversations with people who do feel sexual attraction I’ve concluded I do NOT feel that.I don’t really feel romantic attraction either I must confess, even though I have a boyfriend and I love him, I don’t know how romantic this love is other than that we’ve coined it a romantic relationship and he loves me romantically. I love him. romantic or not.so can’t help you with that that much either.with platonic, it’s not like I see people and am like “this one’s GOT to be my friend” it’s more like. I talk to a person and then they seem nice and then I see if I want to do more with them and then if they still seem nice?I do have one type of attraction which I call physical attraction? it’s probably the closest to sexual attraction only I don’t want anything to do with sexual things. More about wanting to maybe kiss that person.I describe it often as: If we were drunk and the situation presented itself maybe I would make out (=kiss, cuddle, touch upper body) with them.But this attraction also only happens really if I actually know the person or feel like actually know the person.It wouldn’t be someone random I see on the street but rather an acquaintance that was nice, or a youtuber I watch a lot of videos of so I kind of feel like I know them a little bit an can decide if they’re nice.Also most of the time when I’ve ACTUALLY kissed a person (like full on kissed not for funsies smack on the lips no feelings kiss) which has happened not that many times in my 23 years of living, it mostly wasn’t me who started it. I think it has never really been me who started it. at least not with random party encounter kissing. with people I actually liked (3 of them in 23 years) it was 50/50 I guess.So tl;dr: I guess I do not differentiate at all and just hope for the best.

hmmm. I don’t think so?I like hickeys and neck kissing I find them fun and my neck is very sensitive? Is that what you mean?I don’t really have a “type” in people either. I guess I do like broad shoulders especially in men, but I find smaller men pretty as well (and I love me a big ole amazone of a woman those are beautiful)I don’t really know.I’m sorry I don’t really get your question.

Easy! I love to take pictures of plants and landscapes, because those dont run away. I love going on walks with my dog. If the Diva wants to, that is. I love reading and writing and working on my own DnD world. And Gaming with my fiance. only a short list of things i love, not mentioned all the talking with friends, cookouts, baking and game nights ^^ Thank you Jeanz-Bean! <3