What kind of experiences /backstories would make a character cynical, sarcastic and kind of arrogant but still likable to the reader? Sorry for jumping in your askbox so randomly ^^
Don’t worry about jumping into my ask box! Everybody is welcome to take a dip in there whenever they feel like it! :D Thank you for the question! This is actually a really interesting one but first, lets look at what all these terms mean:
Cynic - a person who believes that only selfishness motivates human actions and who disbelieves in or minimises selfless acts or disinterested points of view.
Sarcasm - The use of words to convey a meaning that is the opposite of its literal meaning in order to be harsh or bitter.
Arrogance - An offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride.
Okay, so now we know what these mean, let’s apply them to the character.
Why would somebody believe that only selfishness motivates humans? Maybe they’ve had a rough life where nobody generous was really there for them. They could have been abandoned or orphaned, grown up in rough environments or even become jaded by another person’s selfishness that almost ruined their life. The beauty of this is that now we have something to make us sympathise with the character, and sympathy always makes a reader like a character. We feel sorry for them and want to look after them ourselves.
Why would somebody convey a meaning that is opposite to their literal meaning to deliver insults? Because they’re intelligent or at least literate. To be effective at sarcasm, one would have to understand the meanings of words but also have the wit to deliver such stabs or irony at the right times, quick enough to be snarky and funny. If these are witty responses and delivered on time, the person he’s saying it to may not like him, but the readers will always love a funny and intelligent character!
Why would somebody insist on their superiority? Because they desire to be at the top - they’re ambitious and lively, doing all they possibly can to be able to boast this without lying. This works naturally well with somebody who has been downtrodden and cynical, and with somebody who is intelligent and witty to add that extra sting. Not only does this natural composition of character traits make them feel like a real human, but readers naturally love to read about proactive characters. People like Loki more than Thor in the first movies because Loki is actually trying to do stuff all the time!
As you can see, simply considering what made a character this way and reflecting on other effects these initial issues might have caused has already made this individual a likeable character! Sometimes, characters just fill in their own blanks for you, just so long as you make sure to portray this information somehow in your novel!
I hope this answered your question! If you have anymore questions about anything to do with writing then please, do not hesitate to ask! Happy writing!