Over the last year I’ve been bouncing back and forth w/ the term aromantic/aro-spec.
I feel like 19 years is a long time to go w/o forming anything beyond superficial crushes (many of which I could turn on/off which Ik is an arospec thing).
But at the same time??? Most boys from my HS were trash?? The few ppl I’ve tried to date were either just not good or we just didn’t click (ya know high school bs)
I just feel stuck in limbo. There has been nothing concrete to prove that i do or don’t feel romantic attraction.
Also girls????? I’m ace so the level of attraction is basically the same but I find myself defaulting to men. Romantic or platonic interest I’ve always felt more comfortable around bro’s. But I’ve also never been in a situation where romance w/ a girl was a possibility for me.