aries north node ♂
The north node describes the key life lessons your soul wants to learn in this lifetime. "Your lesson to learn in this lifetime." We are each born with an incredibly unique purpose, a very special role to play on this earth. Life does have meaning, that meaning is very different for each one of us. We don't all have the same destiny. The role of the North Node is to indicate to astrologers the purpose or destiny of the person being analyzed. Their birth was no accident - their incarnation was an attempt to experience something. You are coming from a Libra “people pleasing” South Node (past life) which means that your purpose in this lifetime is simply to develop in independence and self esteem. You need to exert your own personal power. Libra is the desire to please others and maintain balance at all costs and Aries is the urge to make “the self” happy even if that means stepping on other peoples toes. Here we see the spiritual dilemma of “Me” versus “Others”. The trick is instead of being constantly partnered up - you must learn to do things alone. You are to learn how to focus on yourself. Although you may sometimes think you want to be in a relationship or partnership, deep down, you actually don’t! Remember Aries is ruled by Mars - a very aggressive planet. You need to work on your self reliance.
Every single time you allow yourself to become codependent or reliant on another, or you fall back into past life patterns that actually deeply irritate you. You have to learn about independence, not codependence. Your soul is wanting to learn what it feels like to have space, to have me time. To do things without another person clinging to your side. You spent lifetimes holding other peoples hands and now deeply crave to stand and walk alone. You are here to become more of an initiator, a leader, a self-starter, a pioneer. Aries are known for being very charming, whilst Libra are more known for being people pleasers and pushovers. This is your one free pass to be more selfish in this world. You’re here to be bold, not to bend over backwards for other people, all over again. Your past lives were all about compromise and balance, fairness, mediation, keeping other people happy. Now it is your turn to be happy. It is your turn to express your passions and your individuality even if that offends other people. You don’t have to be graceful and diplomatic all the time anymore. Your past lives were all about keeping other people happy but you do not have to be Miss perfect or Mr. perfect anymore. Your soul is longing for freedom and longing for adventure, for passion, for war - not peace. Remember Libra is ruled by Venus which is all about beauty and peace, diplomacy whilst Mars is ruled by warfare and aggression. You are deeply tired of being smothered by social interactions, you deeply need some alone time - A break. In past lives you co-habited, you saw yourself as an extension of your partner. You saw yourself as the other “half” of somebody else. Now it’s your turn to be your own individual self. Take your time back, learn to initiate, act as a leader, stand up for yourself more, do not allow others to walk all over you. Your opinions matter - don’t just agree with others for the sake of keeping the peace. You’re here to build yourself a strong reputation and not lose yourself in another again. Take action on your ideas, workout more, don’t back down from challenges - confront them, don’t “hide” behind a partner. Be direct, take what you want from life, pave the way, lead and actually inspire others. The less you merge with others the better.
