Pick A Pile: What Role Do You Play in Other People’s Lives? ᯓᡣ𐭩
Take a deep breath. Let your shoulders relax. Look at the piles and choose the one that feels calm, heavy, or simply knowing.
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**PILE I: The Stabilizer**
You're often the rock for a lot of people. You're the one everyone counts on to keep things from falling apart. People see you as dependable, down-to-earth, and emotionally stable, even if you don't always feel that way yourself. When things get crazy, people just naturally look to you to keep it all together.
Maybe you've noticed that people ask for your opinion all the time or need you to calm them down. It's like they expect you to handle anything that comes your way without falling apart.
Your presence just makes people feel safe. They see you as someone who won't freak out, run away, or break down when stuff gets tough.
But playing this role can get really draining. Because others count on you to be so strong, they might forget you have your limits, too. You might end up putting your own needs aside to keep everything balanced, becoming everyone else's support while secretly wishing someone would support you for a change.
Think of yourself as a pillar – strong, reliable, and totally needed. Just remember, even pillars need to lean sometimes. It's okay to not be strong all the time.
**PILE II: The Mirror/Catalyst**
You're like a mirror or a trigger for change in people's lives. Just being around you can make people change, sometimes without them even realizing it. Conversations with you stick with them, and talking to you makes them think about stuff they never have before.
Maybe people start telling you really personal stuff out of nowhere. Maybe your relationships feel really intense and life-changing. Maybe people leave your life like they have waken up– changed, stirred up, or inspired.
Your role isn't to stick around forever, but to kick-start something new. This can be a really good powerful, but also isolating.
Some folks will really appreciate how you helped them become a better person. Others might push you away when they start feeling uncomfortable with who they really are.
Think of yourself as a catalyst – someone who sparks change, even if people don't get it.
But it’s important to remember: how they react is on them. You can't control what other people decide to do with the things you help them realize. You're not here to be comforting all the time. You're here to be authentic.
**PILE III: The Observer/Quiet Authority**
You naturally have a subtle influence over people. You might not be the loudest person in the room, but when you speak, people listen. Your words matter because you choose them carefully and they come from experience.
People might see you as kind of mysterious or reserved. Emotionally stable and as someone who's always paying attentions.
This can create some distance between you and others – not because you're being cold, but because you command respect. People might hesitate before coming up to you because they don't really know how to approach you.
You often end up standing a little apart from everyone else, just watching, understanding, and seeing the bigger picture.
You can be seen as someone old at heart. But this can sometimes make you feel lonely. People might think you're super strong and wise and assume you don't need any support or love.
Just remember, being observant doesn't mean you have to be alone. It's okay to step down from being the observer and just be a normal, messy, and sensitive person when you want to.
**Wrapping Up**
The role you play in other people's lives isn't an accident. It shows the energy you give off and things you do, your character – and the limits you set.
Keep in mind, this is just a general overview. Take what makes sense to you and leave the rest.
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