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Though we believe that career is important, we do not realize it forms a whopping 50% of our life. If we are not happy 50% of the time how can life be happy and contented? We need to be more proactive while choosing a career and not just go by the marks scored in the school exams or by what others believe are the good careers. Ask for Aptitude testing with an experienced Counselor.

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While everyone is talking excitedly about the career choices available for students in general, I would like to caution the girl students and their parents to tread this path to final career choice even more carefully than ever before.

There were times when girls would opt for more traditional career choices like medicine, teaching and banking. The reason was obvious. With these careers, there was predictability about time devotion, flexibility and a safe and fixed work environment. This in turn was based on the very basic facts of our social and cultural expectations. There was no conflict then about the role of men and women and career rules for girls were clearly defined and accepted.

Near the end of the earlier century, the winds of change started flowing faster than we had time to adapt to. And amongst the chaos, there emerged new utterly confused role of the new woman.

The new parents were the forward looking generation of the last century and they were enthusiastic and positive about a girl child. Educating the girl child became equally important in all such families. Parents took a few steps forward and began training their daughters for the new world by supporting their extracurricular and confidence building activities and slowly emerged the today’s new age girl who is proudly introduced by her parents, especially by the doting father, as the “BOY” of the house. This girl, the young aspiring students of today is now dreaming of attacking the men’s world and thinks that if she works hard, she will never have to look back again!!!

And this generation X of girls is seeking out the latest and most challenging careers!!!

My first question is for the parents of these girls… “that you are supporting your daughter to select the career of her choice, would you let her pursue the career to its meaningful end even if it means extending the marriage age beyond the conventional?” and my second question is, “When the time comes, would you put a condition that the groom for your daughter and his family would let her pursue the career of her choice? OR would you say like many parents tell me, “hum to achcha ghar aur ladka dekhenge bad mein jaise unki marzi hogi waise he isko rehena padega” (We would seek a good family and groom and the rest would depend on them).

Again, a girl has to play many roles in life; she is the primary caretaker and the mother. These two roles require her to compromise on her career many times. In such a situation if the work conditions are inflexible, for a girl it may mean choosing between job and the family and can lead to frustrations, in the absence of any other convenient alternatives.

There is nothing wrong with these set of concepts and traditions, but my concern reaches out for your daughter. Especially with the current generation, when a girl looks ahead for being next to none and gazes at the sky, one fine morning you clip her wings and remind her that you are a girl and now your freedom to choose and think is over!!!

Here I quote an example. Biotechnology as a career is a rare choice amongst youngsters, especially girls. Many parents approach me to find out how their wards can make a career in this “in” career of today. But most are not aware that this is a research based career and to take this career to a logical conclusion, one has to follow the long route of PHD and the career path is essentially in research field and has scope only when the girl can reside in places where there are relevant industries!!!

And here is where the role of scientific career planning comes in. All these aspects form the most important parameters for choosing a career for the girls along with aptitude and personality testing.

My concept is straight…if you know your traditions, social and cultural limitations, let your daughter know them too and help her select a career that she can use under any circumstances. If we continue with the same example… knowing very well that the girl may not have a say in her place of residence or taking up employment, why not help her with a career that matches her aptitude and interest and has the flexibility of either taking up employment or getting productively engaged by working from home, or contributing to the family business as the case may be. There can be many options for each individual.

Oxford Dictionary defines Aptitude as Natural talent. Every individual is born with an inherent personality. With the process of socialization many layers are added to this personality. But the inherent traits are the guiding lines on which we process the information provided to us in our growing years. When it comes to making choices in life often we make certain choices that we are not very sure we made, but it is our inner person that is guiding us to make the choices.  One of the major components of this inherent persona is the In-born natural talent -Aptitude.      

While choosing a career often a conflict is seen between what a student wishes for and what the society tempts it to choose. The student’s choice is often termed as immature and impractical. And often the process of career selection becomes a bone of contention within the family. The conflict is understandable given the plethora of options available and the inclination to opt for seemingly glamorous path. However if the chosen career and its demands are conflicting with the inner personality traits of the student, the choice creates a lot of problems. 

There is an inclination amongst the students and the parents to opt for the most popular and the seemingly secure career options. For example Studying Engineering appears to many parents to guarantee a sure shot job clinching and money earning option for the student. However, we have a multitude of example today to warn us. Many students, who opt for this study course for wrong reasons like its success rate and prestige parameter either, drop out mid way because they cannot cope up with the demands of the course, encounter repeated failure or barely pass out thus making it very difficult to secure a reasonable job. This same example is seen in all the other courses.   

This conflict is because every career option has its own demands like Engineering needs technical aptitude, Accountancy requires logical and number skills, Management demands logic, people and reasoning skills and so on.  

Popularly, while looking for a career option the parameters taken into consideration are-  

What subject the student is good at? If it is math he is forced for Engineering, If it is biology he is forced for Medicine and so on.        

What are most people opting for?

What are the popular colleges and Institutes?

What option is a sure-shot job clincher?        

Does the career offer a bright future?

All these questions are misleading. A student good at math may not have technical aptitude. Every individual is different and with different aptitude so what others choose and what others succeed at does not guarantee our success automatically. Every career has job options and if one is good at it every career offers a bright future. The right question should be- Do the demands of that career match the aptitude of the student?  

Many career aptitude tests are conducted by counselors all over the world.  These researched and standardized tests test the student on basic sets of inherent talents. Then based on the results the student is suggested career options that would utilize his/her maximum potential. When the aptitude and job requirements match the person naturally feels interested in the study and work. When that happens success is guaranteed in every field.