Criticism isn’t pleasant at all. Especially if you end up doing the same thing you despise in the first place. Lately, i was referring to how much it sucked if someone could not separate between interests and friendship and that sometimes it’s fine to turn your friends down and say NO. Because you have a greater principle than what they’re asking you for. But there’s no use in imposing your ideas and beliefs on them. On the other hand, i find myself doing what i despise most, whenever i am feeling down and something had disappointed me i tend unconsciously to treat everyone accordingly. I end up ruining everyone’s day just because mine wasn’t a good one. I don’t intend to do so. It just happens; i seriously would love to learn how to separate and throw all of this mess on everyone’s shoulders!
