Hallo! I'm A. Pronouns are complicated so just use the ones you see fit. I've been attempting to do readings for myself on this, but any experienced diviner knows how those get muddied with preconceived notions on what you want to hear.
A half-sibling of mine (M, she/her) is attempting to gather a reunion of all her siblings (listing just in case, B, he/him, G, she/her, J, he/him, D, he/him).
The problem is, M would like to hold it in a place that I have sworn never to go again. I'd like to tell her to hold it somewhere else or I won't come. But that may be an unreasonable response. So should I be firm with her or take the ego death on this?
I'd prefer a nature based tarot as nature has a very strong significance to my own practice but use whatever you'd like.
And thank you in advance! -A
Ain't that the truth, A. For you, I've picked out MJ Cullinane's Guardian of the Night Tarot, a deck focused on all kinds of animals with a varying focus depending on the card. Your card is the King of Cups.
The King of Cups in the tarot is the master of the external application of the Cups suit, the emotional realm tied to Water. This one depicts an orca, a member of the oceanic dolphin family that is, in this deck, associated with deep emotions, family, connection, and intuition.
When the water is choppy and the sand from the bottom is churned up, it's harder to find fish and eat. When the water is calm, that's when you feast. The King of Cups offers a warm, compassionate reception to all they encounter, which establishes a soothing atmosphere to foster harmonious relationships and foster diplomacy and compromise over conflict and aggression.
Look, I'm gonna cut to the card's point: Have you told your half-sister why you're uncomfortable with the meeting place? Have you gotten to explain it? You don't have to immediately put your foot down and deliver the "or else" until you first try the calmer approach first.
Hope this helps, A!
~J
