[THEORY] Mike and Will have been trapped in an altered reality together... since Season 1.
This is one of my darker theories. It's a theory about truth, love, queerness, conformity, abuse, repressed memories, half-closed doors and curtains, and the choice between fantasy and reality.
tw: homophobia, abuse, bullying etc.
If you really wanna protect Will, he needs to know the truth, and he needs to be ready to deal with whatâs waiting for him on the other side of this.
What is Anniversarygate?
If you've been following me for a while, you might know of my theory that all of Season 5 was an illusion, based on real events.
This theory, anniversarygate, is similar â except it's not just Season 5. What if the entirety of Stranger Things is an altered reality?
I believe that what we watched was an altered reality created by Mike, based on a traumatic truth, repeating over and over in different ways â starting with what really happened on November 6th.
This is the reason why Stranger Things has "ended"; because the fantasy is over.
First, I'll provide you with a quick summary of what I believe really happened. Then, I'll go into a deeper explanation with plenty of evidence.
There will be more parts to this theory, but this will be the overall explanation.
Anniversarygate Theory Summary
There are two different versions of events, which I will be calling "realities".
1) The original reality. In which Will was kidnapped by Lonnie in 1982.
2) The altered reality. A fantasy created by Mike, in which Will was kidnapped by a monster in 1983.
In the original reality, Lonnie kidnapped Will when he was 11 years old. He took him to Dr. Brenner, believing he would make Will "normal".
Terrified, Will escaped, and Mike hid him in his basement. Will was found shortly after, but this event gave both Will and Mike shared trauma and PTSD.
To recover, Will saw Dr. Owens â but it didn't help. Will didn't trust doctors anymore, and he was still being bullied by his peers.
So, Joyce planned for them move out of Hawkins for a "fresh start". This terrified Mike. He wished that he could live in a world where none of this ever happened. Will wanted the same thing. They both thought they would lose each other if Joyce went through with her plan.
So... an altered reality was formed, in which Will wasn't taken when he was eleven, and their shared trauma was erased.
Things were normal for a year.
Until, on the anniversary of Will's disappearance, he was taken by a monster. On the same day, someone took Will's place... a girl called Eleven.
You see, in this illusory world, whatever really happened is exaggerated, yet also watered-down; a real story filtered over and over through a fantasy lens.
From then on, Mike and Will's trauma continued to leak into their altered reality, on the anniversary of the day it happened.
Vecna: Seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades; each life a faded, lesser copy of the one before...
This is why, throughout every season, there are continual references to kidnapping, past trauma, abusive fathers, "freaks", dreams/nightmares, and characters moving away for a "fresh start".
There is secret story "on the other side of this", that both Mike and Will must to be brave enough to face.
Mike: But... there is a story he could never tell.
The real story.
The Anniversary Effect
In Season 2, we were introduced to something called "The Anniversary Effect".
Dr. Owens: The anniversary of a certain event can bring back traumatic memories. It opens up the neurological floodgates, so to speak.
Hopper (to Joyce): I think he's right about trauma.
Stranger Things follows this pattern repeatedly. The biggest and most highly-recurring example? Bad things happen on November 6th.
It's like in Season 4, when Eleven is interrupted by visions of her hands soaked in blood. Her memories bleed through "from her subconscious", affecting what she experiences in the NINA project.
In the same way, Will and Mike's shared trauma bleeds through from their subconscious, affecting what they experience in the plot of the show.
For example:
In Season 4, Hawkins split apart and all the characters were lying, distant from each other or fighting...
...Just as Mike and Will split apart the year before, after growing distant, fighting, and Will moving away. Because "Hawkins isn't the same without you," Will.
The fantasy directly reflects reality.
Therefore: when Will was kidnapped on November 6th, 1983, this was due to the anniversary effect bringing back traumatic memories from the year before.
So what really happened?
Will's kidnapping: How and Why?
Flickergate
1983 wasnât the start. Not the real start. It was only the first repeated cycle.Â
Robin: Another kidnapping plot. Love it!
On November 6th, 1982, Mike stood there, watching Will leave the Wheeler house. The lights flickered twice. Two realities, repeating cycles.
Will may have been taken by a monster in a fantasy world, but not in their original reality. When he biked home, aged 11, he was taken by something else.
Eleven: I know what he did to you. You were different. Like me. And he hurt you.
Vecna: Papa did hurt me. But he was no monster. He was just a man. An ordinary, mediocre man.
A man; his father, Lonnie.
Why Lonnie?
See, Lonnie never appreciated Will for who he was.
Jonathan (to Will): Has he ever done anything with you that you actually like?
Jonathan: He's trying to force you to like normal things. And you shouldnât like things because people tell you youâre supposed to. Especially not him.
He never looked after Will.
Lonnie: That boy never took very good care of himself.
Furthermore, he was deeply homophobic.
Joyce: Lonnie used to say he was queer, called him a fag.
This is where Will's parallels to Henry come in.
Will and Henry are both "sensitive", "different", misunderstood, queercoded, quiet, superpowered artists, who ended up moving away from home for a doomed fresh start that never happened, who have one parent who is called "crazy", and another parent who hates them.
They're similar because they are THE SAME CHARACTER.
Will: You're just like me, Henry.
Will: I was him. I was Vecna.
Henry's mind is literally a broken home. And so, when we revisit his monologue...
Henry: I didn't fit in with the other children. Something was wrong with me. All the teachers and the doctors said I was⊠"Broken," they said. [...]
Henry: My mother [...] called a doctor, an expert. She wanted him to lock me away, to fix me, even though it wasn't I who was broken; it was them. And so she left me with no choice. No choice but to act. To break free. [...]
It was one of Henry's parents who saw him as "broken", who wanted to fix him.
Henry: ...but I was far from free. I woke up from my coma only to find myself placed in the care of a doctor. The very doctor I had hoped to escape...
Henry: Dr. Martin Brenner. Papa.
Papa, who hurt Henry and Eleven.
In Season 1, as soon as Lonnie saw the possibility to pay off his debts, he came back to the Byers' house with an insurance claim tucked away in his bag. He was perfectly willing to profit off of Will's apparent "death" for his own gain.
Imagine what else he would be willing to do.
Joyce: You were here for the money! ⊠You werenât here cuz of Will, you never cared about him, you never did!
Hopper's gut instinct in Season 1 was totally correct.
Hopper: Joyce, 99 out of 100 times, kid goes missing, the kid is with a parent or relative.
And there's a reason Jonathan felt strongly compelled to check the trunk of Lonnie's car, but found nothing inside.
Lonnie took Will, and brought him to Dr. Brenner, continuing his established pattern of trying to force Will to like normal things.
To say that Will was ostracised for his sexuality, even when he was just a kid, would be an understatement â especially the bullying, which I will elaborate on in another part. But unfortunately, Will isn't an outlier.
The stigma of queer people being disordered/crazy has been around since at least the 1800's, but it got worse in 1952. This is when homosexuality was classified as a "sociopathic personality disturbance" in the DSM-I. The DSM-II revision wasn't much better; it was simply replaced with the term âsexual orientation disturbance", and remained in the DSM-II until 1987.
So, what does this mean?
In the 1980s, combined with the AIDS epidemic, this created an endless societal spiral of moral panic that went beyond homophobia. Homosexuality being in the DSM legitimised and popularised conversion therapy.
If you were already homophobic, you could not only justify it by calling a queer person "broken", but by attempting to have them "fixed".
When we combine this much-needed context about queerness as a "disorder" in the 80s, the patterns in Will, Eleven, and Henryâs experiences, along with Lonnie's canonical homophobia and child neglect?
It paints a picture that is clear and dark.
What people incorrectly assume happened to Eleven in Season 1 are actually what happened to Will, when he was eleven years old.Â
What happened to "Eleven"?
Eleven is the key to this theory. Because "Eleven" does not mean what we think it does.
Benny: Eleven? Whatâs that mean? Whatâs it mean?
Mike: Whatâs it mean? Eleven.
People have been saying for years that Eleven is a representation of Will and Mike's love. I'm going a step further and saying that within Stranger Things, Eleven is literally Will Byers, aged eleven. Or rather, she is living Will's story*.
*this does not mean she never existed â only that Will's story was given to her.
Consider the following list of assumptions about Eleven.
Benny: Your parents forget to feed you? Is that why you ran away? They, uh, they hurt you?
Benny: You went to the hospital, you got scared, you ran off, you wound up here, is that it?
Benny: She's scared to death. I think maybe sheâs been abused or kidnapped or something.
Lucas: I bet she escaped from Pennhurst. The nuthouse [mental institution] in Kirley county. She's an escapee.
Mike: Bad? They want to hurt you? The bad people?
Eleven shapes her hand like a gun. She holds it to her head, then to Mike's.
Mike: These bad people are after her. And I think these bad people are the same ones that took Will.
What if this is all true?
I know it's dark, but to put it bluntly: this implies that Lonnie kidnapped Will, hurt him, and took him to the place we know as the Lab, under the impression it would "fix" him â but in reality, it only made things worse.
This recontextualises the flashback that Eleven experiences while hiding in Mike's closet, in which she was dragged away from her "Papa" by two of the "bad people" and locked in a closet. Her "Papa" just stood there and let it happen.
Meanwhile, Joyce didn't realise Will was missing for eight hours.
Joyce: Eight hours. What kind of mother doesn't check on their eleven-year-old boy?
This explains why she said he was eleven here. Right age, wrong reality.
I also think there is a reason that, out of every possible option, Will's school project was about Alan Turing.
Turing was a highly skilled and influential computer scientist. His home was burgled in 1952, and he reported it to the police. In doing so, he ended up revealing his relationship with a man named Arnold Murray. In 1950's UK, this was illegal. After being prosecuted for his queerness, Turing was put through of the most infamous cases of conversion therapy in recent history.
I think that this is similar to what Lonnie attempted with Will.
Now â I am currently unsure of what the purpose of the Lab actually was in the original reality, because it depends on whether ANY of the fantasy/sci-fi elements of the show are real. If they are, then the Lab really may have been a secret government experiment like in the show. If they aren't real, then it was more like Pennhurst.
Regardless â based on Lonnie's homophobia, and what Henry's mother believed about Dr. Brenner? He believed the Lab would make Will "normal".
Back to Mirkwood
Lonnie handed Will over to the "bad people" â but within 24 hours, he had already escaped.
There's a reason Eleven was found in the woods on Mirkwood, the exact place that Will disappeared. There's a reason she was so often mistaken for Will. It's not a coincidence. Will, aged 11, ran back to Mirkwood after his escape from the Lab.
He escaped through a drain pipe, like Eleven, and ran in the woods. Then he hid, because he's good at hiding.
Jonathan: If he sees the cops, he'll think he's in trouble. He'll... he'll hide. You know, he's good at hiding.
Keep that phrase in mind. "In trouble".
Mike found Will in the woods. This would've been when he was found â but (following Eleven's story) Will asked Mike to keep him hidden in his basement. To not ask his Mom for help.
Mike: You donât want my Mom to get help? Youâre in trouble, arenât you? Who⊠who are you in trouble with?
Eleven: Bad.
Because as Jonathan said in the scene directly before this one, when Will thinks he's in trouble, he hides.
Of course Mike helped him. Because Will's in trouble, and that's what friends do.
Mike: Friends⊠they tell each other things. Things that parents donât know.
Mike kept it a secret.
It's might not be the first time; In the show, set in 1983, Mike asked, "You're in trouble, aren't you?" as though this is a situation he's already dealt with before.
Whether it has something to do with what happened on November 6th, 1982, or what happened on Will's birthday, March 22nd â that's an analysis for another day.
Let's get back to November 6th.
What happened after Will was found?
The Aftermath
Similar to in Season 2, after the events of November 6th, Will began experiencing PTSD flashbacks; "now-memories", as he calls them.
Will: I donât have to think. I just know things now. Things I didnât know before.
Will: Itâs like old memories in the back of my head, only theyâre not my memories... [...] Now-memories, happening now.
He probably even experienced memory loss, related to his trauma.
Will: I don't remember.
Joyce: What happens when he canât remember anything? When thereâs nothing else there? What happens when my boy is gone?
Eleven: If this all happened, why donât I remember?
Henry: Because you do not want to.
In the altered reality, Mike spins this into a good thing. Just as he compares Dustin's cleidocranial dysplasia to a "superpower", Mike turns Will's memory loss and flashbacks into something good.
Will: Good?
Mike: Yeah! You're like a spy now. A superspy. Spying on the shadow monster.
That's what Mike does. He filters reality through fantasy in order to make it easier to deal with.
Will: You really think so?
Mike: Yeah, I really do.
Mike thinks it's true, so it becomes true. Because Mike is the storyteller. But crucially, Will is the illusionist â the artist through which Mike's story comes to life.
Much like Henry and Patty in The First Shadow, Will is the one with "magic", the ability to create illusions and effectively alter reality â but Mike is the one telling Will which illusions to create. Although, unlike Patty, Mike prefers a much more fantastical kind of story.
This is why, when Mike compares Dustin's cleidocranial dysplasia to a "superpower", Dustin DOES NOT get powers. But when Mike tells Will that he has powers "like Vecna", Will DOES gets powers â ones EXACTLY like Vecna's.
Because it's not just Mike. Will needs to be there too.
It's only said that Mike and Will escape through fantasy in the pitch bible for "Montauk" (the early concept for Stranger Things). No-one else, just those two.
Because, again â Mike writes stories with fantastical monsters, and Will escapes through fantasy gaming just like him.
In the real world, things weren't as fun. Like in Season 2, Will was experiencing memory loss that was getting worse and worse, nightmares, flashbacks â and while Dr. Owens tried to help, it wasn't working. Because doctors are part of Will's trauma thanks to Dr. Brenner â meaning that now, Will doesn't trust doctors at all.
Will (to Joyce): You promised no doctor.
Will (to Bob): Are you a⊠doctor?
Will (to Owens): A Doctor.
Mike: You donât trust Owens?
Will: No. I donât know.
Because of this, he always gets âweirdâ before going to the hospital. More "quiet" than usual, as Mike points out.
And in the end, it wasn't Dr. Owens who saved Will. He may have been trying to help, but he just couldn't do it. It was really up to his loved ones to remind him of who he really was.
Will: Heâs been good to us and good to El, but he wasnât able to protect me. That was you guys who saved me. That was you guys.Â
And so, over the next couple years, Will would've slowly began to recover from his trauma. But the real story doesn't end there.
The Summer That Changed Everything
For us, it began with November 6th.
But what was the true catalyst? The last straw in the original reality that caused Mike to "fix" everything, and "turn back the clock"?
It was 1985. Summer.
Three years post-kidnapping, Will was recovering with the help of his family and friends, but there were two problems.
Number one: Will was still in Hawkins. And as Joyce told us in Season 1, his peers bullied him even before he was nicknamed "Zombie Boy". Pretty hard to make a recovery in those conditions.
Number two: Joyce's plan. The Byers would be moving to California "for a fresh start".
Bob (to Joyce): What if we were to move out of Hawkins... together? I've been thinking about what you said, about how you've got all these memories here and you wish you had enough money to move. [...] My turn to be silly now. Wine makes me crazy.
Max: My mom and step-dad wanted a fresh start away from him... as though he was the problem, which is total bull. And, things are just worse now.
Henry: My parents thought a change of scenery, a fresh start in Hawkins, might just cure me. It was absurd. As if the world would be any different here.
As Mike watched his lifelong best friend leave him, he felt a rush of emotions.
I guess I've been feeling⊠distant from you. Like you're â you're pulling away from me or something.
Will: If [I] was ever mean to you, or it seemed like [I] was pushing you away, it's probably just because [I'm] scared of losing you, just like you're scared of losing [me].
Mike: ...like I lost you, or something.
They had been growing distant from each other for a while now. Or, rather, Will had been growing distant from Mike.
Will: El... she hasn't been telling you everything. She's lying to you.
El represents Will here.
Mike: We're friends. We're friends.
Will: We used to be best friends.
Mike: Well, maybe you should've reached out more. I don't know. But why is this on me? Why am I the bad guy?
Lucas: Max, you know you can talk to me, right? Then why do you keep pushing me away? I donât need a letter, I donât want a letter. Just talk to me. To your friends. Weâre right here. Iâm right here.
Max represents Will here.
Playing D&D games less, having less sleepovers.
Hopper's letter:
I miss playing board games every night, making triple-decker Eggo extravaganzas at sunrise, watching Westerns together before we doze off.
But that's just growing up, right?
But I know you're getting older, growing. And I guessâŠif I'm being honest, that's what scares me.
Well, if that's what growing up was, then... they didn't want it.
I don't want things to change. So, I think that maybe that's why I came in here, to try to maybeâŠstop that change. To turn back the clock. To make things go back to how they were.
They wanted it to stop. To go back.
So, in 1985, they did.
Stranger Things is literally a tale from '85.
Back in 1985, Mike told a new story, in which the events of November 6th, along with everything that happened afterwards, would be fixed (or so he thought). Will brought this story to life.
Joyce (to Will): I will never, ever let anything bad happen to you ever again. Whateverâs going on in you, weâre gonna fix it. I will fix it.
Mike (to El): I'm going to fix this.
Will (to El): We'll fix it together.
The final thing that happened before the illusion began, and the ultimate catalyst for its creation, was Will moving away.
THAT'S WHY THIS IS THE FINAL SHOT OF THE CREDITS! The last thing we are shown before the Stranger Things D&D manual. The BYERS' CAR leaving Hawkins in 1985.
And who is in that car?
WILL BYERS. That's him and Jonathan, driving away from Hawkins in 1985.
By the way â Heroes was playing during both of these scenes. Season 3 was a cover, and Season 5 was the original song. Two versions of the song. Two versions of the story.
Will leaving Hawkins was the final straw that turned everything into one big fantasy game, where they got to be heroes.
Ripping off the Band-Aid
But the fantasy isn't real, and it's not working. Even in the illusion, Will was kidnapped and moved away anyway.
And... okay.
Just as Mike and Will were split up by the move, Hawkins was split up in Season 4, right?
Well, very conveniently, the fallout from that split basically forced Will to return to Hawkins.
And in Season 5, Hawkins was put under quarantine. No-one could leave even if they wanted to. And furthermore, WILL IS LITERALLY LIVING IN MIKE'S HOUSE NOW. They were eating breakfast together, biking to school together and everything.
Yes; this part of the story was Mike's final, last ditch attempt to keep Will in Hawkins. He put a Band-Aid over it.
Dr. Owens: Youâre talking about putting a Band-Aid on this [the gate, AKA the "neurological floodgate" of trauma].
Will: If she was going to lose you, I think she'd rather get it over with quick, like ripping off a Band-Aid.
Robin: A phenomenon [the split] now covered up by a giant metal Band-Aid.
It's actually kind of hilarious, in a sad way.
Robin: I'm stuck here with you, my fellow quarantine compatriots. And if I'm being brutally honest... I couldn't be happier. Because when you really think about it, why would you want to live anywhere else?
Mike: DON'T LEAVE! STAY IN HAWKINS WITH ME! IT'S GREAT HERE, RIGHT? RIGHT???
This is why, in the Epilogue, there is SUCH a huge emphasis on all the characters leaving Hawkins.
Joyce and Hopper move to Montauk; Robin, Nancy and Jonathan move to their respective cities. Steve goes on adventures with Dustin, who is away studying at university. Lucas and Max move to a small town together.
Will moves to the city, where he grows up, gets over his "crush", and meets a boy who completely replaces Mike.
Meanwhile, Mike just keeps telling stories. No location given.
Going back to the young adults, I wanna bring your attention to Steve and Robin. Steve is the only one still insisting that it's great in Hawkins, while literally everyone else is so happy to have gotten out.
Steve: Come on. I mean, look at this place. The sunset, the view. You guys are seriously telling me you don't miss any of this?
Everyone: No.
Steve: The forest, the quarry, Family Video, the Hawk?
Everyone: No!
Jonathan: No, I couldn't come back here if you paid me a million bucks.
But after a moment, Robin speaks up.
Robin: You know, there is actually something I miss about this place. I miss this. Just... us. Hanging out. I miss you guys. I really like my new friends, but it's...
Nancy: It's not the same.
Jonathan: I don't think it ever will be.
Steve is kind of like Mike, and Robin is like Will. Because of the move, he's gonna miss Mike, and Mike is gonna miss him.
Just as they said in Season 4, they both feel like they've lost each other. Because "it's Hawkins. It's not the same without you".
Steve raises his drink.
Steve: To nothing ever keeping us apart.
By the end of Season 5, Mike had given Will almost everything he could ever want. He gives him the ability to accept himself, he gives him superpowers like Will the Wise, and they even play a game of D&D again. Finally! Mike also gets some of what he wants; Will is living in Hawkins again, in Mike's own house.
But there's a fundamental piece of the puzzle missing.
Hopper: "It's like there's a missing piece of a puzzle. A big piece"
The missing puzzle pieces, as Hopper calls them, are memories.
Mike: "Yeah, well, the pieces are in Vecna's mind."
But remember, Vecna is Will.
Will: I was him. I was Vecna.
Will: You're just like me, Henry.
Will's memories.
It doesn't matter how large the monster they defeat is, how much fire they use, or whether they close the gate. They will be doomed to repeat these memories in the form of fantasy every year, as long as neither Will nor Mike faces their reality.
Will's memories of what truly happened, and with those memories, the full extent of his and Mike's love â and the ability for them to keep in contact, even if Will really does move away.
The clock is ticking...
Will and especially Mike are starting to come to terms with the truth.
Hopper: Everything I have doneâ
Kali: Is to protect [Eleven]. Keep telling yourself that.
Mike was there for this conversation, taking Hopper's side.
For a while, in the back of Mike's head, he probably tried to convince himself that he was telling this story only to protect Will. Save him from his trauma. But the truth is, Mike wanted his best friend back.
Kali: If you really wanna protect her, she needs to know the truth, and she needs to be ready to deal with whatâs waiting for her on the other side of this.
Will needs to know the truth; to be ready to deal with the trauma that is waiting for him on the other side of the fantasy. He and Mike both have to be brave enough to face it.
Throughout Stranger Things, truth and bravery are consistently connected to each other.
Vecna: Youâre brave enough to know the truth.
Itâs no coincidence that he is called Mike the Brave, but that he admits himself heâs really scared most of the time. To really become Mike the Brave, he must exit the fantasy that he and Will are stuck in, and admit the truth.
That's why the Upside Down is frozen in time, stuck on November 6th. It can't move forward until they both stop trying to go back. To prevent that day from ever happening, in the hopes that it would "fix" everything.
Jonathan: âI tried to convince myself that this would somehow fix everything. But it was just gonna make things worse.
Turning back the clock; it didn't work for Mike, nor for Vecna.
Mike: Why is this on me? Why am I the bad guy?
Vecna works with illusions, trauma, and uncomfortable truths. He says he wants to create a "better world" without "monsters", but in doing so, echoes the actions of those same monsters. In a way, through this fantasy, this is what Mike has accidentally done.
Mike had only traded a man for a monster, his best friend for a superhero, and Will was still moving away.
By the end of Episode 8, he became the Dungeon Master again â ready for him and Will to take control of their story once more, and end what is essentially another one of Mike's overly long campaigns.
The key to achieving this? Love, truth and memories.
There is secret story "on the other side of this", that both Mike and Will must to be brave enough to face.
Mike: But... there is a story he could never tell.
The real story.
The real story explains:
Conformitygate.
Birthdaygate.
The endless parallels between Will, Eleven and Henry.
The importance of November 6th.
Eleven, and why her character arc is about recovering her repressed traumatic memories.
Will Byers, and why it starts and ends with him.
Mike Wheeler, the "dungeon master" and "storyteller".
The importance of Lonnie Byers, why he was the first suspect in the vanishing of Will Byers, and why he never returned to the story.
Why characters keep asking "are you real?" and "is this real?" throughout the entire series, not just Season 5.
Why the series becomes "bigger", more exaggerated, and more fantastical with each new release.
There is more, but the list is too long already :P
We are behind the curtain.
Murray: Those people, theyâre not wired like me and you, okay? They donât spend their lives trying to get a look at whatâs behind the curtain. They like the curtain. It provides them stability, comfort, definition. This would open the curtain and open the curtain behind that curtain, okay?
Something has been building for several seasons now. Iâm not the only one whoâs noticed this. There have been hints throughout the whole show, but the biggest by far is Season 5.
We are seeing the real story from behind the curtain. We are peering through a door that is only open three inches.
WE, THE AUDIENCE, have been told the truth in a more palatable way. The story has been watered-down for us, told through the lens of fantasy and hidden in optional subtext, so that we don't have to confront the deeply uncomfortable truth if we don't want to.
The end of Stranger Things was the end of Mike's fantasy. But the curtain will be ripped away, the door will be opened, and on the other side, the subtext will become text.
We will all confront the truth, no longer hidden behind fantasy, but fully realised â a story that has already happened before, over and over, in a world that is much more like ours than we believed.
Two worlds collided, and they could never tear us apart.
Right now, fear and conformity are preventing the real story from being told â but love will always prevail in the end.
#anniversarygate #lovewinsgate
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This post was edited: 21/3/2026
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Thanks for reading! I hope you somewhat enjoyed this theory.
While I was writing this, there were actually a few moments where I hesitated, and thought, "Should I post this one?" Mostly because of the themes it covered.
But in my eyes, that's a sign that I should keep going. If it's a topic that I'm hesitant to bring up, then... it's a story that deserves to be told, in whatever form it may take.
Also â I have SO much more to say about this theory. But I've been writing on-and-off for like six days, and it's long enough as it is, haha. I will be posting more parts, all of them thankfully shorter than this one :P
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âOkay, but WHY would Netflix spend millions of dollars on a fake show?â
How and why Stranger Things has set up the perfect foundations for a âfake endingâ stunt.Â
A passionate essay by upsidedownlurker.
NOTE: For clarity, I will be using the phrase âthe illusion theoryâ to refer to any theory that part or all of Stranger Things isnât fully real â this includes lovewinsgate, conformitygate, anniversarygate, and countless other theories.Â
Since before Season 5 of Stranger Things, something has been building. Fans of the show were told repeatedly by the Duffers that by the end of Stranger Things, every question we had would be answered. There would be no loose threads left to unravel.
But by the end of the show, we were left with more questions than answers.Â
There are countless theories about what exactly went on with Season 5 of Stranger Things, and what may happen in the future â AKA, what is happening. We can sort them into two main categories.Â
OPTION A: Stranger Things isnât over, and at least part of the show was an illusion.Â
OPTION B: Stranger Things is over, and ending of the show was bad.Â
Therefore, we also have two main reasons for why it happened.Â
OPTION A: This is a deliberate stunt intended to mimic patterns in popular culture, highlighting the problems with the modern media industry.Â
OPTION B: This is a perfect example of the problems with the modern media industry.Â
I'll be exploring Option A today.
So â we have the what, and the why of Stranger Things not being over. Along with that, I am here to explore the how. How the Duffer brothers have already laid the perfect foundations to achieve this exact type of stunt, how it fits into the show, and... well, the answer to the question in the title, too.
THE BEGINNING: BIRTHDAYGATE
As mentioned prior: for several seasons of the show, something had been building.Â
A large and still unexplained example of this is birthdaygate.
Throughout Season 4 in particular, important information seemed to have been forgotten by the characters in the show, including Will Byers' own birthday on March 22nd â one of the only birthdays ever mentioned in the show.
There were many theories as to why. Was it altered memories, timelines or something else? Regardless, fans dubbed this idea âbirthdaygateâ. It gained some traction â but the Duffers claimed it was just a âmistakeâ, a lapse in their memory, that they were sorry, and that they would edit it out of the show.Â
It was never edited out.Â
After this, many people in the theory space seemed to agree that Stranger Things was building up to something big. Especially considering the Duffer brothers' love of well-written plot twists, like "Sixth Sense" by M. Night Shamalan. Twists that change the way viewers understood the show upon rewatching it.
Fan theories ranged from alternate dimensions to altered memories to time travelâŠÂ but by the âfinalâ episode, these theories coalesced into one collective belief: the show was not over, and at least part of it was not real. An illusion.
But a week went by, then a month, and most people had given up on this idea. The show was simply bad. Unsatisfying for the audience.
Like Max at the start of ST5, (and arguably, like Mike at the end of that same season), we accepted our fate.
Thatâs the point.Â
For those who chose Option B, Stranger Things is done. They got their complaints out, and theyâve now moved on to the next thing. Found another TV show to binge. Another thing to consume for the purpose of escapism.
For the fans who chose Option A, who still believe the show isnât over â well, we don't have any confirmation that we're right. We're stuck in limbo, either rewatching the show to find clues, or escaping our limbo with something else.
Stranger Things has forced us to live in fantasy.Â
Whether you theorise that the current story is a âfantasyâ, or whether you believe that what theorists call the âfantasyâ is the real, but poorly-written story⊠regardless, the result is the same. We are repeating the cycle, participating in the patterns of the modern media landscape and more importantly: we are accepting that the fantasy is "real".Â
I believe.
If this is an intentional stunt, then our expectations as an audience, and our idea of reality are being played with on a massive scale. It's like we're all acting our part in a play. Very meta.
Considering the themes of the show, this is far from unbelievable.Â
ESCAPISM AND TV
The illusion theory thrives on a particular duality; two important themes that Stranger Things has established across multiple seasonsâŠ
Reality vs. fantasy.Â
You know what else thrives on the idea of reality vs. fantasy? All of TV! (featuring characters/people, anywayâŠ)
Itâs most visible in what we call relatability; the idea that you can stare through the pixels of a glowing rectangle, see the person those pixels represent, and think, âYouâre just like meâ.
You can feel what the character onscreen is feeling, think what they are thinking, and live the life they are living â if only for a moment.Â
Mike and Will are relatable. They are just like us. Forty years after their story takes place, we are all repeating what they do; escaping our reality through fantasy. For them, itâs D&D. For us, itâs TV.Â
If intentionally written, the illusion concept only strengthens this relatability. Not only are they escaping their reality through fantasy, but they are living it. So much so that they have forgotten what real life is like; they have become the fantasy. They are the characters in what is essentially one big game of D&D.Â
Meanwhile, for us, the audience, the thin line between reality and fantasy has been totally dissolved.Â
Fans of the show have asked,Â
âIf this is all on purpose, why would they do this to us?â
âWhy would they make us wait not just weeks, but months to confirm our favourite show didnât end like⊠that?!âÂ
This is why.Â
Post-finale, the majority of Stranger Things viewers are living the fantasy, just like the characters. Itâs like escapism on steroids.
Let's set the scene for a moment.
You're watching the final episode of Stranger Things, Season 5. It just ended. It was... surprisingly short. It wasnât awful, but it wasnât satisfying, either. It was somehow nothing like what you expected to see, and... something you've already seen before.
You wonder what it was all for. Having now watched all five Seasons of the show, there was no greater message that you now understand â you just feel hollow. Empty.Â
To take your mind off of this disappointing reality, you decide to find a better fantasy. You watch another show, scroll through social media, read some fanfiction.
Reality isn't empty anymore, because it's filled with fantasy.
If this is an intentional stunt? Itâs that emptiness between our escapes, the quiet, that they want us to notice.
In a moment, WSQK will fall silent. But uh, Hawkins, that doesnât mean itâs gone, just that itâs somewhere else. [...] So when WSQK disappears, donât be afraid of the quiet. Sit with it. Listen to it. It knows you better than you think.Â
(The above is a quote from the final moments of the final broadcast on WSQK, the official Stranger Things radio station â the day of the "finale".)
When the show disappears, and our screens fall silent...
We can be afraid of the quiet; we can fill the quiet with sound and move onto another show.Â
Alternatively, we can sit with the quiet, just long enough to hear our thoughts â or even to remember the ticking of time.Â
[Clock ticking] The clock is counting down to 11âŠ
Personally, after I thought the show was over, and I wasn't aware that the WSQK broadcast had continued, I sat with the quiet for a good long while. I laid on the floor, staring at the ceiling. Felt my feelings, thought my thoughts. It was a quiet moment with my own experience before I would be inevitably flooded with the opinions of others.Â
It seemed, for a few hours, like my favourite show had ended in a way that was totally antithetical to everything that made it my favourite show to begin with. As though the showâs creators had done exactly what they said they wouldnât do â abandoned the premise of the show, thereby disappointing their audience.
Yes. The Duffers did a lot of things that they explicitly stated they would not do.Â
Letâs talk about that.Â
BETRAYING YOUR AUDIENCE <3
In their documentary, and in several interviews pre and post finale, the Duffers talked repeatedly about shows that have betrayed their fans in how they ended, versus shows that ended well â âlanded the planeâ.
Ross: âI think when we were looking at the various finales of long-running shows that landed the plane, the ones that did it the best really just stayed true to what they were. [...] We need to be true to what Stranger Things is and always was from Season 1 on.â
Within the first few minutes of the One Last Adventure documentary, the Duffers had said this:
You see these shows that people love and adore, and the ending falters. And they just discard the rest of the show.
The Duffers talked repeatedly about how every question would be answered; no loose ends.Â
You canât leave anything dangling. You have to wrap everything up.
Notably, they also discussed how early-on in their career, they went AGAINST the norms of TV at the time and by doing that, they created something extraordinary. About how, when conceptualising the show, they wanted to create something they hadnât seen on TV before.Â
Shawn Levy: The rules of the TV and movie industry back then said you canât make a show about kids that isnât for kids; you canât combine horror genre and coming of age.
The Duffers: Eventually we realised we just needed to listen to our gut, and wrote for ourselves [...] it came so easily.
Shawn Levy: It was that transgression that made [Stranger Things] feel so fresh.
They said all of that.
They know what makes Stranger Things good. They know what makes the finale of most shows good.
So why is Episode 8 of Stranger Things a betrayal of EVERY SINGLE ONE of these ideas?
I mean... just read this line from an interview.
Matt: We couldâve definitely killed some people; itâs just not what we want to do, and itâs not, to me, what the show is, or what the show is about.
And yet, in the documentaryâŠÂ
âThe whole episode has to be building towards âEleven is going to k*ll herselfâ.â
Huh?!
WHAT?!
By the final season, the show seems to totally forget what and who brought it here. Itâs a Marvel movie, a spectacle, âbiggerâ than its previous season yet again â following the rules of the TV and movie industry. It left question after question dangling, loose end after loose end, with an ending that most fans agreed felt like a disappointment. Itâs a copy of whatâs already been done before, not only outside of the show, but within it, too.
Here's what I think.
So, the Duffer brothers have claimed that they researched the endings of shows, both good and bad, in order to make sure theirs was good â that it âlanded the planeâ.
Additionally, Shawn Levy has said that he watched the âfinal version of the final episodeâ, and that not only did they land the plane, but that the Duffers have created a âmasterpieceâ.Â
I think this is all true â but I also believe that they did this research in order to REPLICATE the most hated endings and media tropes of all time, before revealing their âmasterpieceâ. Their own version of the "Sixth Sense" twist, which both Duffers cite as a big inspiration.
So, which common, hated tropes has Stranger Things participated in during their final season?
Here is a non-exhaustive list, from memory:
TELL, DONâT SHOW: Instead of SHOWING the audience what is happening, the audience is TOLD what is happening, often through lengthy, repetitive, boring conversations â exposition able to be understood by a baby sitting in front of an iPad.Â
RETCONS: Nancyâs âMike, Holly and Karenâ vision is suddenly changed into a âTed, Holly and Karenâ vision with no explanation. The Mindflayer is retconned into being able to be killed with guns and fire, instead of being an unkillable ancient entity. The Upside Down is revealed to be a wormhole, despite never functioning like a wormhole, and using information that is only introduced in Season 5 (the wall).
BAD SCIENCE: The âwormholeâ defies the science of wormholes, science which is clearly explained IN THE SHOW ITSELF. It has solid walls, and characters are able to travel within it as they please. It is kept stable by âexotic matterâ, which doesn't answer our questions, only brings up more.
âBADâ SFX: The CGI effects for the void and Henryâs mind are notably less realistic than in previous seasons, looking more like a play than a TV show.
GRATUITOUS/OFFSCREEN DEATHS: An entire lab full of pregnant women is introduced, only to be never acknowledged, and presumably blown up offscreen in the finale. Oops.
FORCED LOVE TRIANGLES: Steve, Nancy and Jonathan. Mike, Will and Eleven. Notice how neither of these love triangles had satisfying endings for the characters or the audience? Shit.
NO SPARKS: Mike and El appear to have zero romantic tension throughout most of ST5, to the extent that many people thought they had broken up offscreen. They continue to have zero romantic tension during their final kiss â in which Mike does not tell her he loves her back.
FRIDGING: El, a female protagonist, dies when she genuinely could've chosen to live. This is a catalyst for Hopper to move on from the death of his daughter, and for Mike to⊠um⊠uh...
QUEERBAITING: Mike and Willâs relationship was explored carefully over several seasons, Willâs love for Mike was revealed, and their ship was referenced in promo/marketing multiple times â only for Willâs love to be reduced to a âcrushâ, and Mike replaced with a random dude in a bar who looks just like him. Meanwhile, Mike ended up ALONE, with all his friends moving away without him, and El dead. Jesus. Anything but Byler.
NOT TOO GAY: After getting together offscreen, kissing once, arguing, then promising to go on a date to Enzoâs together, Robin and Vickie are never seen as a couple ever again. While Lumax go on a movie date and Jopper LITERALLY GO TO ENZO'S... Rovickie never do. Vickie isnât even in the Epilogue, and Robin half-implies they broke up offscreen.
JUMPING THE SHARK: Rather than narrowly evading the unkillable Mindflayer through love and memories, or spending twenty to thirty minutes of runtime fighting for their lives, the characters apparently won by killing a ridiculously huge, spiky meat monster with guns and fire â in eight minutes of runtime.
PLOT ARMOUR: During the battle with the aforementioned ridiculously huge, spiky meat monster (with incredibly sharp teeth and multiple sharp, stabby limbs), not a single character dies or is even injured. To put this in perspective, let's go back to Season 1. Jonathan injured Steve more with a couple punches than the RIDICULOUSLY HUGE, MULTI-LIMBED, SPIKY MEAT MONSTER injured anyone.
It's not usually like this. There's been the occasional retcon or plot armour moment, but... damn. It really is a copy and paste of people's least favourite TV tropes.
A copy of a copy....
Vecna: Seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades! Each life a faded, lesser copy of the one before. [...]Â
âŠdesigned to distract us...
Vecna: Everyone⊠is just waiting⊠waiting⊠for it all to be over, all while performing in a silly, terrible play, day after day.
...from the emptiness of reality. Consume, consume, consume.
WE, THE CONSUMERS
Many of us watched the finale in theatres, a viewing method which did what the streaming industry cannot do: it brought attention to the fact that we may be individuals with auto-renewable streaming subscriptions, but we are also an audience; a group of people who are collectively making the choice to spend our limited money and time on this earth consuming this show.
And once itâs over, we crave more.Â
Jonathan: The Consumer. It's a metaphor; the more she eats, the hungrier she gets.
Despite the individualistic nature of streaming, we were never alone in our experience of this show, nor others.
You aren't listening alone. You never were. [...] Spreading, connecting, becoming something larger.
A quote from the final WSQK broadcast
Regardless of whether we are in the same room, we will always be an audience, a collective â all sharing the same experience through a subjective lens.Â
Theyâve shown the play in theatres, and soon, theyâll be showing episodes of Tales of â85 in theatres too. Keeping the spectacle going. If this is deliberate, it's all a part of the experience.
âAt the end of the day, the audience cares most about the characters, and not the spectacle... but the ultimate goal is to collide the two.â
Then, where were the characters in all this? What about all their unfinished arcs, unmet goals and unanswered questions?
âEvery year it gets bigger, and every year thereâs more expectation.â
âHow do you meet those expectations but surprise the audience still?â
Iâll tell you how.Â
You do it by making the show âbiggerâ one last time, claiming itâs done â and then, when everyone has moved on, hitting them with the reveal that there is more to the story.Â
Something that is character-focussed. Grounded in what the show has been about since Season 1. A âmasterpieceâ, which âlands the planeâ, and reveals a plot twist that changes the way the audience views the series â just like the Duffersâ biggest inspirations.
Which, intriguingly, is exactly what the illusion reveal would do*.Â
*Given, of course, that it's not done just for the shock factor â but a plot point which contributes to the overall themes and message of the show.
THE "BLIP" OF IT ALL
Now⊠I am a firm believer that the illusion theories are believable, with or without new content â because the foundations of these theories already lay entirely within the foundations of the show. The subtext, themes, and overall narrative of Stranger Things. Because it's there already, we don't need new content to interpret the show this way.
However, I would argue it is for this exact reason that it is more likely for the illusion interpretation to have been intentionally written into the show. The idea that two showrunners could set up the perfect foundations for a very specific plot twist for years, which would achieve everything they aimed to achieve⊠ACCIDENTALLY?Â
I find that difficult to believe.
How do we know it's real?
We don't. But I choose to believe it is.
If this subtext became text â if it was revealed to the wider audience through new content, thereby becoming part of the showâs official canon, Stranger Things would achieve exactly what the Duffers have aimed to for years.
It would create a well-written ending that is satisfying for the audience, yet is also unexpected. It has the potential to spark a cultural shift in the way that audiences view media, and the way that those in charge create media intended for an audience.Â
Rather than being remembered as a âblipâ in the grand scheme of things, this stunt would give the show a legacy, cementing Stranger Things as an iconic, well-written TV show with a crazy twist, that pushed back against the status quo of the TV/streaming industry â by temporarily assimilating into it.Â
THE ANSWER
So, why would Netflix spend millions of dollars on a fake show?
Well, the question itself is flawed. If intentionally written, then Stranger Things isn't a "fake show" at all â it's written with a surprising, creative and iconic twist, which plays with our suspension of disbelief as an audience. It's a show that will have managed to do the "it was all a dream" twist, and actually do it well.
If you were a giant corporation, wouldn't you wanna the only platform available to watch a massively popular show, guaranteed to become even more popular after a huge stunt reveals its surprise finale?
Wouldn't you want the publicity? The subscriptions? The millions of people who would REWATCH the show after finally finishing all 5 Seasons and discovering said twist? The fans of the show who would buy copious amounts of merch from your official store?
Wouldn't you want all that money to go into your giant, corporate pockets?
If Stranger Things is a good show with rewatch value, then funding it is a good business strategy. Simple as that.
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(And on that note... if Stranger Things doesnât end up doing this twist, then itâs only a matter of time before someone else does. The clock is tickingâŠ)
Thanks for reading my passionate rambling. Now, back to your irregularly scheduled programming!
With love,
upsidedownlurker
#lovewinsgate #anniversarygate
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Also, if you're that one person who writes rude comments on everyone's theory posts â you know who you are â you better have read all ~3,432 words of my essay before asking me the same exact question in the title. I'm watching you :P
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Anniversarygate links:
Part 1 (The altered reality), Part 2 (Why write this twist?)
I'm including this post in anniversarygate, but it applies to basically any illusion theory in general, not just my take on it. That's why the links are all the way down here :)
Here are all my theories, in semi-chronological order, from most recent to oldest. Enjoy :)
CURRENT THEORIES:
Anniversarygate đ€đ§ đ
The entirety of Stranger Things is an altered reality; a fantasy re-telling of traumatic, real-life events which Mike and Will experienced.
They wished they could live in a world where these events never happened â so, that world was created. But as Dr. Owens explained in Season 2, "The Anniversary Effect" brings back traumatic memories on the date they originally occurred. Except in this world, they come back bigger and more fantastical.
November 6th, March 22nd... the trauma is leaking back into this reality with every new cycle of their "never-ending story", and their fantasy is getting out of hand. They need to accept the truth.
Mike and Will's real memories will be the key to escaping this altered reality; the real story, including Mike and Will's love and their shared trauma, will be revealed through these memories.
Part 1: Mike and Will have been trapped in an altered reality since Season 1...
Part 2 How the "illusion" plot twist has already been set up...
Rightsideupgate đ”âđ«â°đ
During Season 5 of Stranger Things, Mike is trapped in a fake world called "The Rightside Up", created by Vecna.
All scenes until the Epilogue are altered versions of real events, based mainly on Mike's own memories.
Vecna is keeping Mike trapped in this fake world through his trauma, guilt and shame; a story with an ending of "comfort and happiness", that Mike wishes was true.
His real memories will be the key to escaping this fake world; the real story, including Mike and Will's love, will be revealed through these memories.
I would recommend reading Part 1, Part 3, Part 4, and Part 9
ORDER OF EVENTS:
Part 1 Mike is the "Storyteller" of Season 5
Part 3 Season 5 will have 12 episodes (turning back the clock)
Part 4 Why MWTFDYDgate = conformitygate
Part 9 A timeline of the Wheeler house attack -> Mike's kidnapping
SCENE ANALYSIS:
Part 2 Will's coming out scene was actually Robin's
Part 5 Rainbows are a symbol of forgotten/altered memories (which means Holly's kidnapping was misremembered)
Part 6 Mike's roof talk with El was also a talk with Will
Part 7 Dustin fought with Mike, not Steve
Part 8 El went missing on June 6th
Part 10 Byler had a missed date, not Rovickie
Part 11 What if Vecna disguised himself to Holly as Will Byers?
Part 12 Byler saw Rovickie kiss
Part 13 Will's painting is crucial to Mike escaping his fake reality
OLDER ANALYSES:
Precursors for Rightsideupgate and/or Anniversarygate đ¶đ„đŁ
Click here â Memories relating to Will are being altered
Click here â Things have been weird since before Will moved away
Click here â Will/El parallels, Eddie's D&D game, and why Will is going to defeat Vecna
Click here â "The Rightside Up" is a PLACE (origin of rightsideupgate)
Click here â They played "Heroes" in Episode 8 of Stranger Things, because Mike lost Will again
Click here â Analysing Will's frame in the Episode 8 credits... Will is an illusionist?!
Early conformitygate posts đ€âïžđ€Ż
Click here â Conformitygate is a deliberate stunt, and the One Last Adventure documentary gives us the evidence
Click here â Conformitygate hints in Finn's SNL episode (half-ironic)
Click here â [Old theory] What if the Upside Down's atmosphere is having an effect on characters' mental state?
Click here â [Old theory] The illusion started at the end of Season 4, when the Upside Down's atmosphere seeped into Hawkins
Click here â Stranger Things will have a "bad ending" and a "good ending"
Click here â I believe... (the fifth ever conformitygate post on tumblr. wow what an incredible achievement. truly amazing. #sarcasm)
Thanks all you tumblr theorists, especially everyone in the byler community, for creating such amazing theories for so many years, and for giving me a space to throw my own ideas into the mix! I wouldn't have felt nearly as inspired without you. You made this shy person go from upsidedownlurker to upsidedownposter :)
yk anniversarygate is making me think a little and iâm kinda scared.
i donât think itâs the most likely option for whatâs going to happen with conformitygate (ex iâm not sure entirely erasing el as her own independent character and making her a part of will would go over well with the majority of watchers) but the gears in my brain are turning
i remember watching s2 and being very worried by the parallels drawn between terry ives and will byers. especially with the lab hospital. terry was âstuckâ between dreams and the real world and will was âstuckâ between the slides. i also thought that the scenes where terry and will were being rolled into the hospital were kinda frighteningly similar? i was so scared the whole time that the hospital staff were going to do something to will the way they fucked over terry, but nothing really ended up coming out of that.
even in s1, with people constantly confusing elâs escape from the lab w/ will being missing n stuff.
iâm scared đđ
Okay, I don't wanna scare you any more, but... there are huge parallels between Joyce Byers, Terry Ives, and Victor Creel đđ
Joyce Byers: The parent of a son who is "different"; he has special abilities. The people of Hawkins think she's "crazy" â especially when she claims her son was kidnapped by a monster, and that he's still alive.
Terry Ives: The parent of a daughter who is "different"; she has special abilities. The people of Hawkins think she's "crazy" â especially when she claims her daughter was kidnapped by a doctor, and that she's still alive.
Victor Creel: The parent of a son who is "different"; he has special abilities. The people of Hawkins think he's "crazy" â especially when he claims his family was killed by a monster.
But anyway, the similarities you mentioned between Terry and Will are so interesting! They do remind me of something...
The lab used electric shock rods on Henry (which El saw), they put a shock collar on El, and they electrocuted Terry Ives. This pattern implies that, Will may have at least witnessed someone in the lab getting electric shocks â enough that he remembered it.
So, there's good news and bad news.
Bad news â Will probably witnessed some bad stuff in the lab, and Joyce may still have been treated as "crazy" by the people of Hawkins (for claiming that Will was kidnapped, not simply lost in the woods).
Good news â Since El's escape represents Will's, this means that he escaped the lab within 24 hours... so he probably wasn't hurt too badly, not to the extent that Terry was. đđ
But hey. Until any new content comes out, it's only a theory :P