Notes from The fabulous future formula - by Anna Bey
How you act and how you dress around other matter. Taking your self image serious to reach your goals and represent who you truly are can be done, Victoria Beckham is a great example of that.
Modern elegance: a secret to success. Being elegant is not something you are born with, it’s a conscious choice every day to level up your life. A level of graciousness you exhibit in actions and personal presence. You don’ need to act and look in a specific way like Hepburn and Grace Kelly. You can keep all your personal traits, Most of elegant humans them are unique, fun and make mistakes. But elegance is about learning from your mistakes, but be conscious of them and correct it.
Go for a more healthy life style - taking care of your body will not only help with your physical and mental health but also your confidence and personal image.
Develop self respect, choose your relationships wisely, and have conscious healthy choices. Elegance and class attract the right type of people. The ones that can make amazing things happen to your life.
You CAN change your life and elegance has it’s own rewards
It’s not only the physical aspects
Your thoughts and your brain shape your future. Most people think that powerful men are repelled by women that use their brains but it couldn’t be furthest from the truth
Be ambitious and goal oriented. It’s attractive to know what you want and be resourceful. (Look at Jeff Bezos Wife, she stood out to him and captivated his heart because of her brains, productivity and passions. They got married only after 6 months). Position yourself as a woman of substance
Having confidence and know what you want
Be comfortable in yourself and who you are. Work in your inner self if necessary.
Take responsibility for mindset issues and insecurities that can sabotage you - therapy
Social skills and networking are necessary
Whether you like it or not you have a personal brand
As soon as you interact with anyone you are networking - we all do it on a daily basis, even introverts
Successful people do a little more effort because they wanna be open to opportunities
You never know who you’ll meet in unexpected places to help you with your goals and guide you towards them
Be out there and talk about your projects
Start being a little more open about connections. That can open some amazing opportunities in your life and that work at any ages
What every person person must master: learning proper dining etiquette, improving your first impressions, utilizing femininity, setting boundaries and learning the art of discretion
Being pretty wont save you. If a girl doesn’t know what to with her looks and how to behave herself her looks and like will follow the path she chose.
It’s not about the advantages and disadvantages but what you do with them
Take action - put in the work, make mistakes along the way and do better on the next attempt to climb to success. Be insistent on taking action and pull yourself together. Enough of procrastinating you need to be proactive to get closer to what you wanna be.
There is no other way to get what you want other than being an action taker
