#and sad...

I like to imagine that Ted isn't a jelly bean, but... a living piece of flesh. And if you x-rayed him, you'd find his skeleton, always kneeling, underneath that pile of flesh.

We are in a loving and committed relationship

I have to say that the misogyny in the Greys fandom is so strong! 1) You all judge Camilla for whatever she does or doesn’t do, while Justin, you don’t demand anything from him. You want Camilla to give you words of comfort for losing Jolex, well ask Justin that too, Jolex wasn’t just Camilla. Jolex were Justin and Camilla. And at the end of the day she didn’t do anything, Jolex's destruction wasn’t her fault. You know what, I expected Justin to say something about Camilla and Jolex too, or to mention her in his statment like he did with Ellen, James and Chandra (don't come to me saying he thanked the og characters and all the cast and crew now because I know what he said, I know how to read). But he didn't do that yet, just like Camilla and the whole cast didn't say a word YET about Justin. However I didn't start sending 493043 messages and tweets to Justin asking him about Camilla and Jolex, I could've do that, but I didn't because things sometimes are complicated, because we are not there and we have no idea of what happened BTS, and because as much as we love these fictional characters, there's a difference between Actor and Character. And we have no idea of what's going on in these actors' private life. And then, there's the most important thing: THE RESPECT. My point is, STOP judging Camilla and respect her, just like you respected Justin's decision to leave. Respect both. And she doesn't owe us anything. She's been the best Jolex supporter, she loves her Jolex fans and she loves Jolex, we can only thank her for all these wonderful years. I respect them both. I know it was Justin's decision to leave and I'm not mad at him. I know it's not Camilla's fault what happened and what will happen. And I know this news was unexpected for writers too. *even if writers could've done a better job with Alex, Jo and Jolex years ago and they deserved better, the both of them. 2) Jo is a wonderful character and with lots of potential, she'll be great even without Alex. Yes, it's true she was added to the show to being Alex's new love interest but she is MORE than his love interest. In all these years, she showed us how amazing she is. But I'm sorry she isn't one of the writers' faves. However if she stays, and I think she will, she will prove to everyone WHAT A FREAKIN' QUEEN SHE IS. JUST WAIT. PS: I hate controversy, I love reading your opinions and I love sharing mine with you all but I hate controversy and I'm tired of all this. Tired of all the people who say "Camilla should do that, Camilla shouldn't say that, I expected "x" from her etc.." I love both Justin and Camilla, so please, please, please, if you don't like Camilla, just ignore her. If you don't respect Justin's decision, ignore him and leave them alone. And don't send me messages about what Camilla should do or shouldn't do anymore because I will avoid them and because you all know I trust her and I believe in her. And you already have my opinion about her and this situation.

OKay I think that’s enough now. 😂 I forget how fast these fill up lkfjakljfsa Thank you for the suggestions!!!! ❤❤❤