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..And it all reminded me of when I went through all of this with Logan. Except, Shane and I have been together for years. We have a strong foundation and have planned this out before diving in.

We understand that in order for this distance to work, we have to communicate how we feel. Something my ex refused to do.

Thankfully, him leaving did not hit me as hard as it did when I went through this the first time. I do miss him, but I know that it will go by fast. And I will be able to go to his graduation and be able to spend time with him and not feel like “just the short term girlfriend”-- I am his wife and I have the RIGHT to be there.

I am so proud of him. He probably got sick of me saying that to him, but its so true. I am trying not to make the same mistakes I did in my past relationship. I want to make Shane happy, and I want to see him succeed.