#acetag

I’ve heard good arguments from both sides and on some level it depends on what we mean by ‘asexuality’ but personally I don’t have the need to exclude people from the community. I don’t really care whether or not I am part of the community either. Sometimes I’m feeling super gay and sometimes super ace and I seek a community acordingly. So in a way from personal experience I understand how some people feel like ace people souldn’t be part of the community. But if a heteroromantic ace person feels like they are, I don’t see why someone would actively try to exclude them.

What really annoys me though are people yelling at them/us to find our own community and then filling the asexual tag with hateful trash.

Thanks for asking 💕🌈 Sorry this was kind of a ramble

I'm not an alien.

The amount of vitriol even young ace people sent to me, thinking it should at least be considered because they had good points, didn't they?

And my entire community just died and I feel like some strange fossil of an utterly distant era still feeling like I belong to the ace community as it existed in 2013-2014, and it just does not anymore. It barely exists here at all.

And now I'm just constantly on edge because there was never a reckoning or an apology from anyone; they just moved on to attack another facet of my identity with furor.