Oct 18, 2024
I’m not sure if this counts as an ace meme or not. It’s a me meme, that’s for sure.
Sir(s), I am in my 40s, ace, and only even aesthetically attracted to fictional characters way out of my league. Good day.
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I’m not sure if this counts as an ace meme or not. It’s a me meme, that’s for sure.
Sir(s), I am in my 40s, ace, and only even aesthetically attracted to fictional characters way out of my league. Good day.
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https://youtu.be/xhQt-7yI-wM
Animated short film about asexuality. Thought it was neat. You’re the only ace person I follow on here so I thought I’d share 🤗
omg that you even thought to send this to me in the first place is sooo sweet of you.
Here's the embedded link if anyone else wants to watch!
This is so fucking good! and the animation is adorable too!
the way she feels like she has cracks and is broken because when she looks around it seems like everyone has something that she doesn't... but when she sees there's an entire community of people just like her, she realizes she's not actually broken after all.
I'm not crying, what are you talking about.
WHY ARE YOU ATTACKING ME WITH THIS ON A RANDOM THURSDAY?? (I'm just kidding thank you so much for sharing this! 🥺)
Moments I should have realised I'm Ace
Back before I realised I was asexual I was on tindr and a couple of dating sites (because anxiety and I default to being a social hermit). And I ended up chatting to a woman I'd matched with on tindr who sent me a message saying in essence "Here's my address of you want to come round and shag me." And I was like WTF?!
When I expressed my surprise to some friends online their response was: you do know people use tindr to arrange casual sex right? Why would you be surprised by an offer of casual sex?
Remember that period of tumblr where people aggressively hated asexuals for no reason
yeah i mean i used to be one of them. i maintain i never hated asexuals though
i think it’s wild to look back on because its so painfully clear that those of us being like, SO adamantly against asexuals being included in the queer community simply had no real experience ever and like BADLY needed to go outside
i have a friend at work who is asexual/possibly heteroromantic and i would call her LGBTQ before literally any straight person. i feel comfortable chatting with her about LGBTQ stuff because honestly it doesn’t feel like chatting with a cishet about the same stuff. she just feels like part of the community idk
there is no rulebook literally no one is harmed by ace people wanting to feel included
and now that i certifiably Go Outside i can look back and roll my eyes at some of the highly dramatic shit i used to say and think about it
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does anyone else have the acespec experience of "i think sex is hot as a concept when i'm not involved/both men and women can be aesthetically beautiful but on average women are hitting it out of the park way more perhaps by the discrepency in effort/actually you know what this womans tits are the best thing i've ever seen on a person but idk if i'm actually attracted to her for real like i'm fine with looking and not touching forever/the same sentiment but about a mans chesthair/man nobody irl is actually hot where are all the hot people irl" like shrodingers bisexual where you only admire hot people regardless of gender from afar but there's no innate sexual desire unless you're already looking at legit porn? Like people are so hot from afar in theory when they are like art pieces to survey and not when they are my coworkers or classmates or fellow kmart shoppers?
When I was an asexual kid, I was so unable to conceive of myself being happy fitting into the Evangelical, amatonormative world that I knew that I fantasized about being in a monastery. Now that I’m an adult, I recognize this wish as the suppressed desire for self-anihilation. When I was an older kid and then went to college, I became incredibly anxious and depressed, as a direct outgrowth of that old desire to escape life as a married cis person.
I’m so, so glad I was able to find the queer community; it was my saving grace. Queer support of asexuals and aromantics is absolutely critical. Our experiences are fundamentally queer, and questioning and newfound A’s deserve to be lifted up by the other LGBTQ’s.