#abyssspeaks

I do not subscribe to the “no you/your” trend.

I believe it encourages dissociation, dehumanises people, and is generally unhealthy.

I refuse to actively dehumanise people, as a victim of dehumanisation trauma. Talking around people is a form of dehumanisation.

This can also be very uncomfortable to anyone who doesn’t speak english natively, or anyone who has language issues.

I truly believe these people are finding comfort in dissociation and dehumanisation, and I think this trend is going to seriously harm many peoples recovery.

heres my studying one

36 notes currently

For every 2 (x18) notes we will work through 1 page of our chemistry textbook

For every 5 (x7) notes we will go through one of our pages of notes online and reorganise it

For every 10 (x3) notes we will read a chapter of a book for english

For every 15 (x2) notes we will go through one unit of chemistry

For every 25 (x1)notes we will find an article online related to our english work and read it

For every 50 notes we will work through either one characters costume, one set, or one lot of lighting/sound for drama (for different scenes and characters depending)

For every 100 notes we will write an essay for english or drama

For every 150 notes we will do a chemistry past paper

I dont think itll get anywhere near that but just if it reaches 100 notes ill add more goals

holy yap. please read all of this, i know theres a lot

Systems are caused by trauma. There is no science that supports non traumagenic systems. Please read the TOSD.

You scientifically cannot be ‘mixed origins’. You are either a traumagenic system, or not a system at all. Your trauma is enough. I promise. Even if its stress in childhood. Even if its struggling due to mental illness or neurodiversity. Even if its bullying. Or neglect. Or anything else. You DONT have to have been beaten, or assaulted, or abused, to have trauma. Trauma is the response to an event, not the event, and everyones threshold is different, especially children.

You can be traumagenic and split alters for reasons that arent explicitly trauma: ex splitting an alter to deal with exam stress. This does not make you mixed origins.

But outside of any of that? Mixed origins cannot use my boxes, because they fit under the endogenic label, and endos are on my DNI.

I am uncomfortable with spending my time and effort on a graphic for people who think they have any of the same experience as me, just without the trauma?? And dont believe in science?? I dont believe that you can have alters without a cdd, and i dont believe that you can have a cdd without trauma. If that experience exists, then it is entirely separate to my experience. My system and our alters were formed via trauma, and seeing people use the same terminology, the same graphics, the same resources surrounding alters, for non traumagenic systems? It feels like a mockery. Its like ive spent ages working on art for my teammate to put something through ai and get a shitty ai photo, but then both calling it masterpieces, or selling it in a stall next to mine, or anything like that.

I cannot stop you from using my userboxes, but would rather you request from someone on your side of discourse. Please think about why you specifically want *my* userboxes rather than any endogenic safe userboxes.

425 people watching for my userboxes.. almost 2000 userboxes created…

But we are looking for some advice and suggestions!

We would very much benefit from a picture board *similar to* digital aac apps and communication cards, but we do not need the audible/digital aac accommodations. we are looking for any sort of app where we could have a picture board like aac, with folder accessibility and stuff like that!

We are brokeee so another requirement is that it would need to be free 💔 unless anyone wants to commission our writing or anythign

Feel free to reblog this with suggestions, let us know in the comments, or send us an ask !!!

Just wanted to make a really quick post apologising for my lack of activity. I have over 60 requests in my inbox right now, and my exams are coming up very shortly.

I greatly apologise to everyone whose asks have sat in my inbox for months, especially those from literally late october last year 😭 I promise I haven’t forgotten about you, and I haven’t forgotten about this blog.

I am going to attempt to fill them slowly during my exam period. Maybe one a day, if I have time. — All requests will be filled in late june when my exams are done.

My inbox is still open, if people have requests. My oldest asks have priority.