Lock in with me. Studying for my commercial law paper (first 1.5 hours) then pivoting to governance (1.5 hours), then law again for 1.5 hours before 30 minutes of IT note taking.
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Rewrote the parts of my essay that were criticised in the feedback & Iโm too scared to hand it in. A friend of mine spoke to the ta that does the grading and apparently sheโs not the nicest person there isโฆIโm really hoping Iโll pass on second try. Wrote a reflection for my tefl seminar & handed it in and did the prep work for wednesdays linguistics seminar. Now all thatโs left to do is the required reading for the entire tefl module (seminar + lecture), which adds up to ~100 pages :( Honestly? I wouldnโt mind not having to work tomorrow so I can go to a cafe and read those chaptersโฆ
Watch me fail to study for an hour in this timelapse taken literally right now! It may look productive, but I spent that whole hour failing to absorb info that ended up not even being on the study guide for the controls midterm tomorrow, which pissed me off so badly I had to get up right now and take a food break before I snapped at someone for no reason.
I feel like this is one of the most annoying parts of ADHD that no one really mentions because it doesnโt fit the general perception of ADHDโ overstimulation from cognitive/task overload leading to insane frustration seemingly out of nowhere.
For me personally, this ends up presenting itself as extreme responses to sensory stimuli and overreactions to my tasks being interrupted (I almost started yelling in the beginning when the pen I was writing with got ink on my fingers LMAO).
Normally my solution would be to take a break, but unfortunately I donโt have enough time with my midterm tomorrow, so a shit load of sugar/carbs/caffeine is going to have to do for now. Taking the time rationalize my frustration and talk about it here has surprisingly helped a lot too! I have to get back to work though, so long rant over ig
easiest way to write a paper on literally anything :
1. leave your intro and conclusion for the end, I mean it donโt try to write your intro until the end, just trust me.
2. figure out your main point and get at least three defensible (credible) reasons to argue that point.
3. start your body like this:
introduce what youโre gonna say. Provide evidence (citation). Connect it to the bigger picture. Show your understanding. [add in transitions for fluff]
-> sentences for each if you need your paper short, paragraphs for each of you need your paper long
4. then rinse and repeat
5. need to add in other sections like a rebuttal or gaps in the literature? do the same paragraph format :
intro sentence. main discussion (citations as needed). connection to bigger picture. show your understanding.
6. now write your intro :
first get the readers attention, idc how just hook em. what the hell are you talking about? why does it matter beyond your main point? what do you want the reader to be thinking about as they read your paper? what is your main point? summarize your evidence.
-> again sentences = short, paragraphs = long & transition statements for fluff.
7. the conclusion is basically the introduction but ordered differently and use different wording - you can literally just copy and paste what you wrote in the intro, use a thesaurus and rewrite it.
What the hell were you talking about? what evidence did you give? what was your main point? why does it matter in a broader scope? What did you want the reader to think about?
I use this notebook to write down my list of things to do each day. I use one side of the paper for an expansive list, and I use the other side to write only 3 tasks at a time to do. It is called the Triage Method and I found it through this video. Writing only 3 tasks at a time helps make tasks less overwhelming, which makes it easier to complete.
I also sometimes write out the hours of the day to fill in after I finish doing something. It helps me be more aware of what I'm doing throughout the day.
2. Weekly Planner
I use my physical weekly planner to plan out my week. I will write down events and appointments and when they happen. I make sure my planner is open, so I can see what is happening. I make sure to update it immediately if I am able, or I will forget. I do not like timeblocking, so I stick with horizontal planners.
3. Monthly Wall Calendar
I have a wall calendar that is in a place I can see it at all times. I write down events and appointments and their times. It helps to have lots of visuals to know what is happening and when.
4. Digital Wristwatch
This was a gamechanger for me. I bought cheap digital watches that have the month and date. I actually know the time and date. It helps me stay aware of time passing without my phone distracting me.
5. Visual Timer
I bought a cheap visual timer and it's been so helpful when doing monotonous tasks. I will shoot for 15-20 minutes instead of a full pomodoro 25/5, because it feels short enough to feel like I'm not bored out of my mind. I also have a visual timer app, but it can be a hit or miss because my phone is super distracting.
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I've been a bit sad because I'm taking way more time than neurotipical people to finish my degree, between my adhd and mental health struggles my uni career has been quite slow which tends to demotivate me.
To counteract this I've been watching millie lao's yt videos, she's a student at Yale and makes uni life seem so fun and light. I put her videos in the background and it feels like studying with a friend which keeps me in check ๐
Rn I'm studying linguistics which is one of the most difficult exams I still have to do, so on one side I truly want to lock in to get it off my checklist!
adhd tips of the day:
โฎ if it doesn't distract you, put on a studying video on yt for background noise and to keep that part of the brain that wants to wander around focused on the academic vibe
โฎ use a nice scented candle, this might sound stupid but smells keep the mind interested and soothed (in the pic you can see the chocolate scented one I love)
its finally getting a little bit cooler in the mornings, i can have hot drinks and open my window now <3
studying for my world religions class this morning, we are talking about Buddhism and viewing it through a Western lens of religion vs a more Eastern lens, where we look at the depth and complexity that it has, without assigning it/comparing it to Western religions! i am enjoying this class greatly so far :D
compiling the best tips I've seen for studying with ADHD bc they helped me so they might help someone else
first of all, making a humungous long to- do list of everything you have to do can be helpful, because that way you're not forgetting any tasks if you have it all written down, but don't just stop there & anticipate that it's going to take time to do all the tasks (don't put pressure on yourself to complete it all in one day or some bs)
second of all, you're going to get bored while doing a task. if you're already trying to complete the to-do list, you might find the easiest part is actually jumping to a new task and starting it (because the novelty aspect makes it more doable). SO, please don't feel bad for stopping and starting tasks on the to-do list. Let yourself skip around the list because it's really hard to start a task and see it all the way through without getting bored. It's better to have made some progress on five different tasks than have barely completed one. To summarise, if you start getting bored and struggling to complete a task, literally just move to a different task that you'll find easier. Productivity is often not linear with ADHD.
I actually linked my flashcards to my interests! it is sometimes very hard, but all I did was find a photo of my hyperfixation & print it off to go on the cover of the flashcards. it sounds silly but your brain wants to engage with your interests so taking the time to try and link the boring tasks with your interests actually makes it easier to engage with them
find out what is the best way for you to process information, and exploit it! I find i understand things better when I talk things through & test myself, like have someone ask you questions and verbalising your answers. SO find how out how you process information the best (conversation, writing, visual etc)
Finding a spot to work can be tricky. You probably cannot focus best in bed, even though it is so tempting. Try and work at a desk/kitchen table. When you're taking a break, try to stay in the same place that you're working (eg rather than going to your bed or going to the living room) becuase I find that it's really hard to get back to doing the task if you leave it for too long. Staying seated prevents this
Secondly, if you're studying for exams, PLEASE put them on a calendar so you can visually see how long they are away, otherwise you will most likely overestimate how much time you have to prepare for them
In terms of how much time you spend working, a few things. Firstly, don't feel bad that ppl around you might be bragging about doing ridiculous hours a day. it's not about how much you do, it's about the quality of what you do, and remember that your brain literally works differently to theirs, so you really shouldn't compare your time to their time. If you're going to use a timer to see how much you do, I actually wouldn't recommend using a countdown one, as they are often a bit de-motivating (at least for me). It's probably better to use a stopwatch, because that way there's less pressure, and it feels more like a challenge, like how much work can you get done/how long can you work for, and it feels like you can stop whenever you want to.
I personally try to work in 30 minute chunks, that's just what works best for me. I don't put a timer on my breaks either, because then it just makes them unenjoyable.
I know everyone says this, but have water next to you at all times. I often find myself getting exhausted from working because I will hyperfocus on what I'm trying to do and completely forget about fuelling myself with water/food etc. Having water next to you prevents this, as well as thinking about what time you're gonna eat (maybe set an alarm so u don't forget) otherwise you will just exhaust yourself.
Your brain likes novelty. Buy yourself a new pencil case, new nice pens/highlighters etc.
I saw this one from @aloraofficielle on instagram, PLEASE go follow her because her tips are amazzzinggg, but if you really can't make yourself ready to revise, try "dopamine farming", which can be doing a short exercise, smelling loads of different perfumes, or at least for me lipsynching & dancing to a song i absolutely love to generate enough dopamine to transition easier into doing the task
Pls change your mindset from "can you lock TF in" to "you CAN lock TF in :)" your brain doesn't like commands, it likes encouragement! Be nice to yourself while studying, make yourself a cup of tea and wear comfy clothes like pyjamas.
Also, doing silly things like having your phone screen as your favourite character saying "lock in!" or listening to a soundtrack from your fav game/film while you study can really help with motivation
Finally, if you need to have a youtube video in the background or playing music to motivate you, js do it. I need that most of the time to get shit done, and just because it doesn't work for neurotypicals doesn't mean it won't work for you.