#abroace

𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐝 𝐁𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐚𝐥, 𝐀𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐍𝐞𝐛𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐃𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥. 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐝 𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐒𝐡𝐞/𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲/𝐈𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐧𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐬.

Pronouns; She/Her/They/Them

I most often go for feminine pronouns with people I know and I don’t mind being referred that way usually, but there are times where I don’t visualise myself as a ‘girl’ and a few where I am uncomfortable being viewed as one. I haven’t yet decided on whether to use They/Them in my daily life yet, especially as it’s rare to feel uncomfortable with She/Her but luckily for me most refer to me by a nickname or terms I consider neutral like ‘dude’ rather than anything gendered.

Pride Flag;

The flag I connect with most and use most is the ace flag! Not only does it represent me well but luckily it suits my aesthetics really well!

For romance I have fluctuated between Lesbian, Bi, Pan and Aro for years but none felt right until I recently discovered Abromanticism (otherwise spelled aboromanticism) which is a romanticism that is fluid or changing, even though the individual's sexuality may remain the same. I feel that this fits me perfectly as I often have my preferences shift and though I haven’t yet pursued a relationship with someone I have crushed on I do at times have that desire for a romantic connection so I can’t sit comfortably in the Aro category. Not sure on my feelings about the flag as I’m still new to it, but the colours are cute!