8, 13, 19 and 20 for the writer asks please :D
8 - what’s your relationship with constructive criticism and feedback like? do you seek it out? how well do you take it?
I welcome it - as long as I seek it out. If you give it to me unasked in any way shape or form, I do not take well to it lmao. But if I want it, or expect it, I welcome it. I learned well how to take it and help it shape my writing for the better. That you don't need to agree with everything everyone says - especially if they're new to your style, or just getting to know it or you etc. Or just because it's something you really want to keep.
Following on from this, I can be quite fussy with who gives me constructive criticism. I need to trust the person. I need to know they know my style, and are familiar with it - or at least understand what I'm trying to achieve with it.
I've had nightmares with people trying to edit my style of writing into more conventional formats who don't get what I'm trying to do with it etc. Or just don't enjoy a more non-traditional approach?
But anyway, in general I really enjoy seeing what works and doesn't from another's eye, and where are my weaknesses and what I do good at - because I don't always see it.
13 - talk about a writing experience that has pleasantly surprised you
Probably starting to write interactive fiction? I'm very hmmm about 2nd person and it's still quite situational for me. So outside the very small /readers I did for 'the community' or whatever, doing these interactive novels was also kind of an exercise for me to practise writing in 2nd and to find more love for it - and it worked.
I really enjoy writing in 2nd now as long as its in this sort of interactive format, because it really works for me. And I think also my style lends quite well to it. I'm quite surprised how much I enjoy it really <3
19 - what are some books or authors that influenced your style the most?
Angela Carter and E. E. Cummings are big influences on my writing. Also Poppy Z. Brite, Joanna Russ, Ursula K. Le Guin, Philip K. Dick.
20 - what is your favorite trope to write?
Hmmm. Probably....grief and loss. Longing. Of something. A person, the self, love, past, your future, agency.