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Coleman Sleeping Bag | Kompact 25°F Mummy Sleeping Bag

Coleman Sleeping Bag | Kompact 25°F Mummy Sleeping Bag Product Description & Features: COMPACT: Coletherm Max premium and lightweight fill ​provides better heat retention with less weight and allows bag to pack easily into stuff sack COMPRESSIBLE STUFF SACK: With side straps that can be cinched to compress the bag; compact size packs up smaller than traditional Coleman sleeping bags (9.4 x 9 x…

MARMOT Angel Fire Sleeping Bag: 25F Down – Women s Malachite/Deep Teal, Reg/Right Zip

MARMOT Angel Fire Sleeping Bag: 25F Down – Women s Malachite/Deep Teal, Reg/Right Zip Product Description & Features:

Material: 30D nylon ripstop, DWR treatment

Insulation: 650-fill duck down

Shape: mummy

Zipper: left, right

Max User Height: [regular] 5ft 6in, [long] 5ft 10in

Brand: MARMOT

Manufacturer: Marmot

Estimated Price: $258.95

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he loves you, because he sees you in a totally different light :* you don’t see yourself when you’re sleeping peacefully or when you’re deep in thought or that moment of joy on your face when you get something right for the first time, you don’t see yourself when you’re reading something cute and you get that lil half smile on your face, or when you’re just feeling happy and that radiates from you?!

we are our own worst enemy, we’re generally our own harshest critic. because we see ourselves day in and day out, and we know every. single. thought and feeling that goes through us? it gives us a skewed perspective of who we are! but humans are flawed and that’s ok, we’re made up of a mixture of both good and bad personality characteristics, and everything else really is just subjective. 

learning to appreciate who you are takes time, it’s a constant daily process, but it’s ultimately so so worth it. make a conscious decision to make some changes, take it in small steps! maybe that’s changing your social media environment, unfollowing accounts and blogs that have negative content on them (or just accounts that make you feel negative) and instead following accounts that talk about body positivity and make you as a viewer / reader feel good about yourself too :) maybe another step could be to distance yourself from friends or people in your life who aren’t super healthy to be around, sometimes we undervalue just how much the people in our physical environment can impact us. 

you are valued, you have worth. your boyfriend is with you because he wants to be, because he’s attracted to you and likes you for who you are :) while you definitely don’t need to love yourself, for someone else to love you? it definitely can help encourage a healthier relationship with yourself as well as with him too. stay safe lovely xxx

Betrayed

25/f

I’m having trouble with one of my friends. She’s been one of my closest friends for the past 10 years but last year we kind of hit a bump in our friendship. Right before I left the country for 6 months, I admitted to having feelings for her roommate who is a mutual friend of ours. I only admitted this to her cause I have asked her several times if there was anything between them and she always said no. Turned out she lied and they had been sleeping together for a year and she has feelings for him too and things got awkward but since I was leaving the country I told her I would back off and wouldn’t let a boy come between us.

While overseas, it came up that he had feelings for me too but because of my relationship with my best friend, I didn’t act on it. My friend and I talked and she suggested that we keep each honest and if he tried anything we would tell the other. I agreed and even went as far as to block him on all social media while I was gone and didn’t talk to him at all until I came back to the US as much as it hurt me to do so.

When I did come back, I find out that they had been sleeping together again while I was gone and my friend lied to me about it. She brushed it off and said that because I went on a few dates while overseas that she thought it would be okay (she was also dating around). I feel so betrayed because I kept my promise while she didn’t and I’ve been wanting to talk to her about it but because of how the world is now and personal circumstances in her life I haven’t had the chance for a face to face conversation. She’s been avoiding me and they both treat me differently that it’s making me so angry and guilty.

She is such an anti confrontational person that I can’t talk to her online or she’ll shut me out but I don’t know how I should go about having this conversation when the two of them live together.

Any advice would be appreciated, thank you for everything!

what a shit thing to do, wow ): I’d feel so upset and betrayed as well! I really would, that’s not cool. 

if she’s so anti-confrontation that she would shut down and ignore you if you brought this up in a conversation online? then all you can really do is wait until social distancing and lockdown measures lift, and talk to her in person. normally I would suggest skype or facebook video or face-timing? but if they live together then there’s too much chance of him overhearing things and getting personally involved too, which is only going to complicate things.

since waiting it out seems to be the only option? keep yourself busy, your mind distracted. I’ve been spending time doing daily yoga and pilates workouts, I’ve spent time here on tumblr on this blog, I’ve spent time reading up on things ancient greece (something I have lots of interest in but seemingly never enough time to look into it haha), I follow a very cool gal on instagram (@em_carey) and she’s done a few very casual drawing classes on live stories that I’ve participated in? there’s a lot you can do! get in the kitchen and do some baking, get outside and get some exercise, learn a new skill through youtube – knitting, crocheting, drawing, a new language, a musical instrument? you could reorganise your room marie kondo style? you could buy some adult colouring books or dot-to-dot books on amazon to keep your mind active and engaged? so much to do to keep busy at the moment. 

there’s a lot of posts floating around on tumblr at the moment to reassure people that not being productive is also ok? and it truly is, for real. but sometimes keeping busy is excellent when you need a distraction and being isolated makes you either lonely or fixate on negative thoughts and feelings. 

when you eventually have the opportunity to speak in person? try to drive home the point that you’re betrayed because she lied to you and broke her promise. she might try to side-step things and avoid accountability and make it about the fact that “you like this guy and you’re just jealous”?? but that’s not it at all, I can see that plain as day and hopefully she can too. good luck, let me know how things go for you xxx