Also its really fucking annoying when i introduce myself as Jack to someone ive never met previously & they just decide to call me Jackie...like? i literally just told you my name is Jack & you just decide that thats not my name... like why should i even say my name. i should just shake ur hand & say “guess” or like “give me a name. call me w/e.” or just stay silent. like ppl just see me as female & think Jack isnt fitting, so me introducing myself as Jack is met with so much resistance & i hate it. im NOT a girl. i wish ppl would stop seeing me as a girl.

not to be annoying but I’ve told a bunch of ppl i prefer to be called Jack & like I’m not gonna get pissed if u dont call me Jack but its kinda hurtful when like i explicitly tell ppl my preferred name & they dont ever ever call me that. it just seems kinda weird. it makes me uncomfortable but im never gonna say anything.