i was in a similar situation, this guy was super into me and my genderfluid ass panicked about it every thirty seconds cause what if he likes me because he thinks i’m a girl? i rejected him when he asked me out cause of this, and a bunch of people had since pointed out that i am clearly not a cis person and even if he didn’t know i was trans, he knew he wasn’t getting into a relationship with a “normal” girl. i’m also in a super homophobic, transphobic country and before telling him anything, i evaluated whether he was trustworthy. he expressed support for some gay ships, respected a mutual’s they/them pronouns and it was only then i told him. he took it very well and we have been in a relationship for three months.

the takeaway is to ensure he likes you as a person and not the way you look, and to test the waters before thinking of coming out to him because your safety comes first

Girl not you out here telling a trans man to write for female readers when

A) I'll get dysphoric over it

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this bullshit. Hopefully they leave you alone soon enough man, wish you the best

!!!!!!!

This right here

-Trans macs 🧍

Airhead: Tall dad that probably enrolls all his kids in Taekwondoh so they learn to protect themselves. Will hurt someone for harassing his kids. I believe that this man will be playing basketball in the middle of winter in just a jacket and basketball shorts. Awesome hair and probably has an entire cupboard full of hair products. Fruity af. Majorly protective of his family and once smacked a homophobic dickwad on the train (he meant to smack him but ended up decking him because this man is tall af). Neck or back is always cracking when the make sudden movements? Dude go get that checked out.

🪶: Another dad figure. More chill than Airhead. Also less stable but equally fun.

🦛: Oldest son, somehow one of the shortest ones tho. Still traumatized by raw chicken Iida. Probably on a debate team, he gives those vibes.

🦇: Big brother that acts like the stand in dad. Probably can’t cook for shit. Lowkey a bad influence on the younger brothers but everyone loves his ass so gets away with it.

🥑: That one cool cousin that spends so much time with the family that they’re basically a brother anyway. Sarcastic and will drag your name through the dirt but caring anyway. Killer sense of style.

🌘: Older middle child but doesn’t act like it. Probably has a stash of junk food in his room. When he’s upset all he does is cry. Dirty mind and so many friends. Looks kinda scary but is a bi disaster so yeah that takes away from the intimidation factor a bit.

∞: Older middle child. Feral middle child. Literally shows affection by making fun of people. Petty as hell. Confused by every strange thing that happens on this blog. Seems bubbly but is secretly dark af

Poe: ∞’s friend that basically lives with the rest of them. Airhead and 🪶 once forgot that Poe wasn’t one of their kids and put a stocking up for them at Christmas (which Poe was spending with them anyway so it all worked out).

Unavailable: Younger middle child but doesn’t act like it. Has the most stable relationships with everyone in the family. Makes fun of people’s glasses despite him having glasses. Is a smart idiot.

🪂: Youngest middle child. Spends more time writing than talking to people. Jokes about yeeting himself into the void on a daily basis.

🖕🏽: Oldest triplet and everyone’s favourite child (sorry y’all but you can not read the anon’s on this blog and tell me that 🖕🏽 isn’t one of their favourites). Probably smart af and skipped a grade in school. Short ass but makes up for it in sarcasm/sass. He gives off the vibes that he would also have a kick ass fashion sense. Seems like everyone needs to protect them but he can more than cover his own butt in a fight (both verbal and physical) unless you actually hurt them then he’ll break down in tears. Literally everyone has a crush on him (but is so ducking oblivious). Idk but if he speak a second language, expect to hear rapid cursing and insults in said second language. Is probably the one that 🪂 will enlist to yeet him into the void.

🎹: Middle triplet, blessing to behold, and knows how to not get in trouble. And when he does get in trouble, he can talk himself out of it really fast. Don’t get on his bad side because 1.) he’ll emotionally scar you for life and 2.) His family is full of feral idiots and salty bastards.

🌙: Youngest triplet and an absolute icon. The mastermind behind the triplet’s pranks. Once stole hung their principal’s blazer from the top of the flag pole (don’t ask, nobody knows how the fuck be did it). Low self esteem but nobody knows why because he’s literally beautiful and has a great personality like wdym