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anything i post is fine to reblog, and to add your own input on if you want ^^ no need to feel bad for going on tangents here, we do it all the time. inbox is open, but it may take a bit for me to respond - messaging my art acct @rat-kings-things may be quicker / easier for since i get notifs on my phone ^^

we're going to try to get into the habit of tagging our posts with whichever alter wrote it. at the time we don't really know how many of us are here but if you see a random name or set of letters in the tags / "-(name)", that's what's up. We also have two headmates that currently just go by "unnamed" and "unnamed L" because they haven't chosen names yet - if/when they decide, these will be changed (eventually). If it's tagged with -???, whoever made the post is unable to figure out who they are.

Sexists (yes, this includes against men and intersex people.), transphobes/homophobes/queerphobes, and ableists/sanists DNI unless you're making a genuine attempt to understand another perspective.

Hi lovely,

There’s nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality more. Here’s a list of sexuality and gender labels that you can read through. Maybe you’ll find one that you identify with! 

Also, being bisexual does not mean that you’re 50% attracted to males, and 50% attracted to females. It’s perfectly fine to have a preference, yet still identify with being bisexual! There’s also something called romantic orientations. For example, you could be heterosexual biromantic, meaning that you’re only sexually attracted to men, but could see yourself having romantic connections with both males and females. Really what it comes down to is finding a way to identify that works best for you. Lots of people never find a label and that’s okay too. You do you. 

As for people judging you, that’s a really scary thought, I know! But, until you figure out whether you really are a part of the lgbt+ community, that’s not something to worry about quite yet! When/if you choose to identify as something other than straight, you can weigh your pros and cons of coming out. Not everyone comes out right away, and some never do at all. It all depends on your situation. I hope this helps!

Love,

Hi love,

I’m a little confused - what makes you think that you shaved the wrong part? As far as I know, there really isn’t a “wrong” part to shave. I think it’s important to know though that whenever you shave something, the hair that grows back is going to be darker and thicker. That’s just the way it is. That’s why you have to shave over and over again: unfortunately there isn’t anything you can do to make the hair go away permanently unless you get laser hair removal (which is expensive). Shaving, waxing, any of those methods... they are just temporary things that you have to keep doing. For example, most girls shave their legs every few days or once a week. But if you don’t want to shave, love, you don’t have to. Don’t shave for anybody else: shave only if you want to! There are plenty of people out their who find body hair attractive. Some people even prefer their partner to have hair down there! If a person really likes you, pubic hair isn’t going to make them not like you any more.

As for how to fade scars, check out this page. Keep in mind that most of the time you can only fade scars to a certain extent. There really isn’t any way to “remove” scars, only ways to help them fade more / fade quicker. Some scars you might have permanently, whereas other scars might fade away over a long period of time. It really depends on a number of different factors.