hi im really sorry but this has been on my mind a lot and i know people have said it before but!
it is NOT âquirky and relatableâ to not take care of yourself! it is not something to brag about! donât make how sleep deprived you are into a competition! donât say proudly how you only eat ramen!
because fun fact! its not cool! it creates a negative stigma around actually being a productive and healthy person! like i was watching a video from my recommended feed on yt comparing trisha paytasâ (yeah iâm not a fan but i wont diss) morning routine to othersâ and???
when i looked at the comments they were making fun of the girls that woke up on time and didnât immediately check social media and maybe took some time to plan their day?
why canât people understand that taking care of yourself is good?! itâs okay! it doesnât make you self centered or âbasicâ or anything!!
when i started to come out of mental illness and really work towards becoming more organized, i got more compliments and became more sociable and more! helping yourself is good! trying to make a routine and get out of unhealthy habits is good!