Did you see the message from eyes wide shut? Im so so worried....why wont people wait until we know the final decision? What will happen if people follow her?? Im scared for the future truly....
I saw your second message and Iāll answer both on here as requested. ^^
I was worried about how to answer, Iāve been trying to get back to regular posting, get back some level of normalcy on here..but after hearing Daehyun sing and watching Junnieās instalive, I feel more hopeful. They knew we were worried, and they reached out to help. So iāll try and do the same ^^
I have seen the things youāre talking about and the best advice I can give you is to let those people be. And iām not implying that you are engaging with them and Iām in no way agreeing with them, but please donāt allow someone elseās decision to affect your well-being. Itās not worth it.Ā
People must do what makes them feel comfortable, they must be allowed to express their emotions. And we should try and let them go, without creating an emotionally-charged stress cloud around it. Itās healthier for everyone. If something is distressing, mute it / block it and move on to a safer space.
And youāre right, they probably wonāt be the last. But thatās okay. Everyone looks at things differently - some see the world as very black and white, others take a more nuanced view of things. Sympathy, empathy, life experience, circumstance, all of these things come into play when dealing with a very sensitive situation.
There will soon come a time where all of us will have to make a decision. I hope and pray itās a simple, relieved one - but thereās a chance it wonāt be. And I know youāre worried about this, so I promise that no matter what you decide, I will not judge you. Not for staying, not for leaving.. and not for leaving someone behind. Even if my decision is the complete opposite of yours.
And iām sure I wonāt be the only one, the BAP tumblr family is full of good eggs. If weāre all understanding, help each other, and take care of each other, if weāre respectful and kind - weāll definitely get through this, weāll be alright. ^^