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Totally cool if you aren't, just wanted to ask

Hello to you too, Nonsie! Also welcome to the party! Unsure exactly what this party is but it's lovely to have you here <3

I do have my pronouns along with other little bits of information I've deemed important in the bio of my blog, but! It's not as simple as just the fae/it I have listed there so thank you for the opportunity to expand upon them! also speaking of my bio I'm thinking of putting "kotlc god" in there now that people have called me that cause I think it would be fun, but I'm on the fence about it at the moment. anyway!

The two primary pronouns I share with people are fae/faer and it/its pronouns, but my favorite between the two of them is the it/its. It's not listed as it/faer just because I've had it the other way for so long that changing it feels off, but the pronouns that give me the most euphoria are it/its! The fae/faer are also nice and satisfying, and that's why they're one of my other primary pronouns!

However, you may see me from time to time referring to myself with they/them, which is because those are the pronouns I use publicly in real life. People are more open to and aware of they/them pronouns rather than it/its, and as I don't feel like explaining my reasoning and also possibly endangering myself if closed minded people are around, I go with the they/them. It's a habit and sometimes I'll use them here and on other sites without realizing. I won't be upset with anyone for using they/them for me, so truly don't worry about it!

Also, if you refer to me with any others that's fine too! I wouldn't even point it out if it happened. I'd probably just be like "huh that's new" and move on, so if you she/he/they/xe/ae/ze/anything else me, cool! Pronouns are fun and I don't mind being referred to in different ways, it/its and fae/faer just happen to be at the top of the lists for the moment! if you want you can just pick a pronoun to assign to me and use those! My gender is undefined and I enjoy voidpunk rhetoric when it comes to it, so there really is nothing strict.

I know some people struggle with these kinds of pronouns because they think they're being rude, but you aren't! I like them quite a bit and like when they're used. If anyone is interested, I can also explain why I like them and how reaffirming they are to ease any of that anxiety--or if you're just curious. It has a lot to do with monsters and autism, but both in good ways!

And thank you for the art compliments! I have been drawing for a while and was actually primarily a fanartist in the kotlc fandom before I started sharing my writing and doing character analysis, so if you want to see my older pieces you can check out my instagram! it's in_quil_sitive (which I've linked. also I'm considering changing it to bookwryminspiration there too so it matches my tumblr). You can see I'm very fond of watercolor and kotlc. But I'm also planning to do more art in the future, just not as often as back then.