#* facts

unlike aurora, whose transition is relatively straightforward — male to female — wolfgang is a nonbinary individual, meaning their gender dysphoria is fluid and inconsistent. it's less "today i feel like a man and yesterday i felt like a woman!" because... what exactly does it mean to "feel" like a woman or whatever, i hate that shit, and it's definitely not "today i dressed like a girl and tomorrow i'll dress like a boy" because presentation is part of gender roles. it's more specifically feeling a disconnect between their brain's mapped index of their body and their physical sex characteristics, which can range from mild to severe and which varies over time. this can make actually identifying their dysphoria tricky; how do you tell if you don’t feel dysphoric because your gender matches your assigned sex at that particular moment, or because you’re just not having a particularly dysphoric day? answer: it’s fucking hard.

wolfgang is designated male at birth, meaning a doctor looked at them, saw a penis, and went “that’s a boy,” so their parents raised them as a boy. or tried to, anyway. generally speaking wolfgang desires a body mostly free of primary sex characteristics and male secondary sex characteristics. unfortunately it is basically impossible to find a doctor willing to do sex reassignment surgery to give you barbie doll crotch, and anyway that would not really be a “cure” to their dysphoria since it’s fluid anyway; essentially they are always going to feel uncomfortable in a body that will never quite match what their brain expects it to. that’s not to say that they hate their body or anything, just particular aspects of it are kind of unpleasant. part of the reason for their intimacy issues is that drawing attention to their sexual organs makes them dysphoric. they take androgen blockers that restrict their body's production of testosterone, which does things like reduce their production of body hair and redistribute the fat on their body, but don't take supplemental estrogen, which is uh, actually not great for you. if they had to choose, though, they would much rather be female than male; the dysphoria they experience from male sex characteristics is way worse than female ones, though tbh that may be a case of the grass being greener on the other side.

wolfgang is not actually aware that they “count” as transgender at this time, their understanding of the term transgender is people designated one sex who want to transition to the opposite sex, they don’t really know that being nonbinary is like... a thing and they’re not alone in this, they kind of just think they’re some sort of freak. :\ i am super interested in having them discuss gender with other trans characters but they’re super hard to find and tbh i’m picky i hate it!!! when people use cis men for trans women etc.

uri was born with the ability to do magic (an awakened avatar), which is extremely unusual; the avatar usually awakens in late adolescence/early adulthood. additionally, their specific avatar is uncommonly strong, and the strength of its presence spills out into reality around them and results in them having a quality that the vast majority of ordinary people find strange, frightening, and repellent. as a result, they are largely rejected by other people, including their own parents, who were never quite able to articulate why they found their own child slightly repulsive. (this feeling went away when uri’s avatar went back to sleep when they were 12.)

rejected by their peers, uri began to seek out the very few individuals not afraid of them, sometimes called by the psychic distress of other lonely children. they have very few friends, in palestine, in america, in russia; all very far away from home. when they find people who accept them for who they are, they become fiercely loyal and protective over them, but their loyalty is not without consequence; uri will kill without hesitation to protect those important to them, partially because as a child themself they don’t quite grasp the finality of death. when they were six they killed a friend’s family member who was abusing him without being asked to, and the presumption of that act later goes on to damage their friendship.