Sweet Subby Boys

conditioning their behavior with some treats.

💖: i have a romantic crush on you!

💜: i want to make sure you’re happy

💙: i have a friend crush on you!

💚: im a little jealous of you

💛: i just think you’re cute!

💘: i wouldnt say no to a platonic marriage

👀: im too shy to talk to you

💗: i want to give you a hug!

💋: i want to kiss you!

💪: id fight someone if they talked shit about you

🔊: im really glad i started following you!

💬: we should talk more!

💭: i think about you a lot

👏: everything you say is great wtf…

🎧: you have excellent music taste!

👑: your blog aesthetic is lovely!

A ruined orgasm [Here]

Humping a pillow 1 [Here]

Humping a pillow 2 [Here]

A sleepy time [Here]

Edging the saga Part 1 [Here]

Edging the saga Part 2 [Here]

Edging the saga Part 3 [Here]

Edging the saga Part 4 [Here]

Edging the saga Part 5 [Here]

Just some begging and moaning [Here]

Calling myself like a good girl for someone [Here]

One of my first times with my bigger plug [Here]

20 Spanks [Here]

More begging and edging [Here]

Begging to taste “my domme” Request [Here]

Begging to be fuck…and something else [Here]

The time I didn’t cum for 14 days [Here]

The start of the 22 day challenge [Here]

14 days into the 22 day challenge [Here]

21 days into the 22 day challenge [Here]

Cumming after a month [Here]

Cumming after a month part 2 [Here]

Humping my pillow [Here]

Cumming after a while of denial [Here]

Sure.

Red means stop. No more negotiation, something has crossed a line (too painful, something bad that wasn’t negotiated, etc.)

Yellow means that you need a break or that something is too much, or that if the top continues then you’re going to “red” soon.

Green means that things are going well and you want to continue if not ramp it up a little.

While a bottom might blurt out red or yellow, I’ve never seen a bottom volunteer “green”. It’s usually said in answer to when a top is checking in to make sure everything is okay. Asking “How are you?” and getting an answer of “fine” or “okay” might mean the bottom is just on autopilot and reflexively answering. Asking “What’s your color?” and getting “green” or “I was very close to yellow when you stopped” is much better.

One of my favorite doms to watch at parties was doing a pre-scene negotiation with someone he hadn’t played with before and said something like “Now, just between you and me here ;-) , my favorite color is yellow. It’s not about taking anything I can dish out. I promise you, I can always go harder. I want to know how you’re doing. I’ll likely yellow you, on purpose, a few times, just to find out where your limits are and then aim for a little below that. I don’t want to hear ‘green green green, green green red’ because then the scene’s over. I want some indication of how you’re doing and when you’re getting close to what you can handle, okay?”