Thereās a saying ālook beyond what you seeā,we follow that in everything that we fix our mind on. Well,Iām no mother Teresa. I have done it too. I was carried away by the cinema fantasies too,when I was young. When I see a movie on friendship,I start to think about not having a friend who sticks to me no matter what. When I see a movie based on family, immediately start to think about not having a father. I always think about why thereās no better job for me( when I had the dream job of being an actress),why did I have a break up?? Why,anyone in my life,not understanding me ? There were so many āwhyā that kept on going in my mind. One day when one of my friend cut the call by saying ādamn,you are Such a negative personā then it hit me really hard. I started to think really deep,analysing myself,whether āhave I really grown into a whinny person ?? Am I really talking only negative things in my life ??ā Well,the answer was a hard YES... then things started to change in my life. Itās only because,I started appreciating,what I have.I started appreciating the smallest things around me. That made me notice,the little gifts that,god has given me. So what if I donāt have a father,I have a MOTHER. So what,there was no father to complete my family. God has given me a husband,who completes my family.so what if my friends donāt stick on to me, I have got my family who sticks to me,no matter what. So what, if my son breaks my heart. When night comes, a chubby cheek,comes finding me,smiles at me and says āgood nite mom,I love you,momā.. we often forget what we have and always look for something,that doesnāt exist. If you want love ?? If u want to find it ?? Look around you. There will be some one in the form of something,like, a friend, a co-worker,your child,your husband,your wife or your parents. They might be in any form,but thereās always one.Start looking around you. Looking beyond,every time is not necessary. Sometimes LETGO of our EXPECTATIONS helps a long way. Stop punishing yourself by calling yourself unlucky. What you have,others might not have. Letās celebrate what we have and be proud of it.