Surrendering yourself to Recovery

i don't need anyone's permission to be who i am

Stop just asking "is it normal?" and start asking "is it harming anyone?" Lots of harmful things are normalized in this society and lots of things considered weird or rare are completely harmless. Whether something is considered normal or common shouldn't be the deciding factor in whether it's okay

when your toxic trait is isolation and avoidance but your love language is physical touch and quality time.

I feel targeted...

As soon as you leave a place, you are already changing. There is something sad about that but also very freeing.

mutuals. c'mere. this is a checkpoint. i am checking in. i am wrapping you in a blanket and giving you a nice warm drink. also some pretty flowers. it will be ok.