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- Mod Erin 

Hey love,I'm always here to talk, feel free to PM and I'll listen to you, no matter what. Is your friend giving the impression that she's sick of it? Maybe ask her if you can confide in her, don't push too hard but hopefully she'll be alright with it. Nobody should be left alone when they're struggling, and maybe people don't understand, maybe they don't get it, but they'd do anything for you if they knew what they could do to help. - Mod Erin

Hey love, I'm so sorry this is a late reply, but a lot of the other mods have become inactive. I know how you feel, and honestly, I think it's a good idea to ask somebody about it. Choose the closest person to you in that friendship group, and ask them why they keep acting like that. It's not your fault in any way, I'm sure you're a gorgeous and beautiful person. If you ask them about it, and they dodge around it, try to stand your ground. It may seem hard, but asking them about it is probably the best option, as they probably have no good reason to exclude you. Ask them if they hate you, and if they say no, then ask them why they're being cruel towards you. Don't let them try and skate around it, because you don't deserve this sort of treatment. You deserve good friends and real answers. If they continue to be terrible, then I suggest that you do try to find some people who are genuine and kind. Being alone can be really difficult, and it hurts, but sometimes it's good to reflect on what types of friends they really were, and if they were doing any good to you. It's not a bad thing to block toxic people out of your life, if they're being rude to you for no reason at all. Make friends one by one, say hi to somebody, find common interests with another, even make internet friends. Changing friendship groups is tough, and the time in between is even tougher, but I know you can get through it. Spend that time doing things you love. If you need more advice, then I'm here to help ❤️ - Mod Erin

Hey there love, I'm sorry for the late reply. I'm sorry you have to deal with all those situations, stress is awful. I'm not so experienced with these things but hopefully as the year continues, the stress will be lifted. It can't last forever, and it's always a good idea, even if you can't get a proper break, to spend some time for yourself. Put a date in your calendar when you know you're free, and go do what you enjoy. Even one day of no stress can help lift the pressure, believe me. Get some fresh air, laugh, smile, just find a time where nothing's going to interrupt you. Even if it's just to go to the movies. If you can't, then try to finish the work as soon as you can, and then even a walk outside could help. With the translation issue, you can find professional translators online for basically free (please don't use google translate, it's the worst) and I think that they could help? Instead of you have to translate all of it, you can leave it up to technology, which is now getting much more reliable than ever. It may take some searching, but there will be some websites that can help. Take deep breaths when you feel that you can't take it, drink some water, remember to take care of yourself. And you can do it, I believe in you. We're here for you, no matter what happens. Hang in there, think of the things that do make you smile, despite your stress. Even the tiniest things-your pet, the sky, the taste of your favourite food. Let those motivate you to continue. - Mod Erin

You may never get over his death, and that’s okay. But try to move on as best as you can, don’t force yourself to, like I said, give yourself the chance to grieve. Remember to ground yourself, at all times, and don’t lose yourself