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Elements and principles of design by Patrick Butler

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Losing motivation/inspiration
Every single one of us as architecture student has shared this feeling of wanting to give up and quit. Things become too overwhelming and it may feel like you canât handle the stress any longer. Every class is equally demanding and a lot of work. Just thinking about the amount of work that needs to be done can start a panic attack. Instead of sleeping, you just keep replaying in your mind all the things on your to-do list.
You start to lack inspiration and canât seem to move forward with your projects. Motivation starts to drain away and you no longer want to even look or think about the work. Just thinking about not wanting to do it is stressful itself.
After a bad desk crit with your professor, you just want to flip tables. You start to feel like everything youâre doing just isnât working and thereâs no use in trying to move forward.
What happens to us during this time is hard to describe in words. And trust me, this happens at least once every semester.
Now Iâm here to try and help open your eyes to how one can overcome this experience.
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Talk to professors
Professors are there to guide you, so who better to talk to when you are having a hard time?
I know when Iâm having a hard time communicating my ideas to my studio professor I go and reach out to another professor that I can talk to. Doing this, you are able to get another personâs outlook on your design. I feel that sticking with one personâs perspective (your studio professor) can start to become useless because they have a certain outlook on your project and so itâs hard to find another direction when you keep trying to do what they expect. So reaching out to other professors and getting their input can really benefit your design.
I say itâs like a mid crit, but at a time you really need it. Mid crits are always really helpful since you get an outside perspective. Receiving many inputs can be a bad thing too though; try not to go around to 5 different professors. Stick to one or two who you can keep in contact with through the duration of your project.
Talk to friends
Speaking to your class mates can also really be beneficial.
When I say go talk to your friends for some advice, I donât mean âhey man can you tell me what you think of this idea?â
I mean really sit down, at dinner or something, with your sketch book and discuss architecture. Discuss what you are trying to achieve and how you far you have come in doing so. From here you and your friends should be having an architectural discussion about your design. Like really get deep in there and really discuss the problems you are facing and ask them how they would go about progressing it.
Be open to change
This idea of being open to change sort of comes from the previous topics. When you are trying to get feedback, you need to be open minded. Some people may give you some advice that you donât particularly like, but sometimes itâs those examples that lead you to progress your ideas further.
This has happened to me, my studio professor said this ridiculous thing that had nothing to do with where I was trying to go but it made me think. It made me think really hard at how I can take what he said but make it my way. This resulted in me coming up with a solution to my problem. Even though it wasnât exactly what he was saying, I was able to tweak it into something that worked for me.
This is what constructive criticism is all about. Itâs about you taking what was said and interpreting into your own idea.
Find inspiration
Go look at some awesome architectural tumblr blogs! Thereâs loads of inspiration on tumblr!
Donât go on these blogs and find things that look cool, find out why is this architecture like this, why does it work, what about it can benefit my own design. When you are looking for inspiration you need to have an architectural outlook on the projects you come across.
Also look at some books in your school library, pick up a book specifically on an architect you favor. Look at some topics that may pertain to your ideas.
(to be edited and continued)
Switching from Intuitive to Deliberate Thought
Photo: Second Thought designed by Benjamin H. Byron from the Noun Project
We tend to think in habitual ways, which hinders our ability to think creatively and solve complex problems. Over at Farnam Street, Shane Parrish dives into the writing of Roger Martin to uncover the value of breaking our thinking habits in order to generate new ideas or solutions:
What we think is often made up of habitsâŚIn an evolutionary context this makes a lot of sense. If you see a lion, you run. This is fairly closed. You donât ask a lot of questions or attempt to discern if the lion is friendly or not. Our minds are optimized to think and act quicklyâŚ
As unconscious and intuitive habits, these are often hidden from us and often come from our desire to feel good. Over time, however, these habits become our realityâŚ
The key to changing how we think, then, is to switch from intuitive to deliberate thought, observe our patterns of communication, and then change the way in which we communicate. As Heinz von Foerster put it, âIf you want to think differently, first learn to act differently.â Communicating differently with others and yourself is the key to changing your mind.
According to the article, to break our thinking habits â to have generally more ideas as well as more creatives ones â we have to look at how we communicate to others and ourselves. By changing how you communicate to others about your ideas, it impacts how you communicate to yourself (and thus, changes how you think).Â
Stages of the creative process:
After watching Tony Schwartzâs: To Solve Big Problems, Change Your Process I wanted to write his process with my own thoughts and words. Iâm mainly projecting this idea in an academic setting and hope to give those interested in architecture, or any creative field, an insight of the process of creativity as well as a reassurance to those who feel stuck and donât know how to move forward.
Iâve written about how to come up with a concept (to me, the word concept has become taboo, thatâs a story for another time) and how to get the creative process going; both posts talking about how to spark creativity but not about the process of creativity.
What happens during the creative process? How do we get to one stage to another? How does an idea get transformed into reality?
I hope to answer some of these questions.
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First Insight:
Every creative project starts with the intentions to solve or fix a problem; whether the problem is housing a sustainable community, making a bike helmet more wind-dynamic, or branding a new company. There are multiple creative and diverse industries that all revolve around solving and answering to a problem.
Finding and defining the problem or question at hand is an essential step. Outlining the issue is the starting point of imaginative and intuitive discovery; it tells us where to start looking and how. For instance, the way I would go about solving a housing issue would be entirely different from resolving an environmental problem.
Identifying the issue allows the transition into discovery.
Saturation:
Discovering the howâs and whyâs of an issue is the ultimate challenge, but immersing ourselves in the known is a rewarding accomplishment. To come up with answers we need to learn the past, what has come before and how did it get to this point now. The gathering of information creates a strong foundation to any creative project.
As architecture students we learn about architecture history, we understand precedents, we research, we sketch, we make, and we conclude. These are all key skills that we should use during this process.
What I have found a lot of people do, myself included, is look at inspiration thinking it can solve my issue but it canât and it shouldnât. âDonât Waste Your Time on Inspirationâ because to solve our particular problem, we need to find the solutions through research and development. The learning and understanding process is how ideas form, not looking for inspiration.
I think and will always think knowledge (particularly about the problem at hand we are trying to solve) is power and holds a strong foundation to how we stir creativity inside us.
Incubation:
At different points of the creative process there is time when thinking needs to be put aside. When we engross ourselves into a project too much, we start to lose momentum, things get too frustrating and ideas donât move forward. Taking a break allows a shift in thinking to happen whether we are aware of it or not; when we turn our brains off and we arenât actively seeking for an answer, we permit the mind to breathe. Learn to value turning off the brain because most of our best ideas come when we are doing simple tasks such as showering, driving or walking. The greatest times we get our best ideas are not when we are searching for our best ideas.
The average creative process will ask for multiple breaks and we shouldnât fight them, we never know when that âah haâ moment will come. During the âSaturationâ time, we should expand our minds in knowledge and then walk away from it after we digest it all.
Illumination:
These are the âah haâ moments. The breakthrough experience is when we figure out what we were trying to solve from the very beginning.
After intensive amount of time spent on discovering, learning, and understanding what it is that needs to be solved, we come up with the solution to that problem almost instantaneously sometimes. Through moments of putting thinking aside we sometimes can stir up these breakthrough moments.
Verification:
The final portion of any creative project demands an interpretation into reality; translating our insights into something that is accessible and understandable is the moment we work up to. Granted in architecture school we always say we are never finished, but for that semester you work your ass off for the final presentation.
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The creative process itself is simple; there is a problem, research what makes up the problem, walk away from it, re-visit and research some more, a discovery happens, and finally produce it for the final.
We should not force an idea out of ourselves, we need to find it.
How to Make Sure You Are at Peek Creativity and Productivity When You Need to Be
There are a lot of articles out there that focus on improving creativity, productivity and generally the capacity to do good work and get results. While these articles are often very useful however, itâs not always clear precisely what they are aiming to achieve. Improving creativity and productivity are undoubtedly noble aims but are we talking about increasing the peak of our potential? Are we talking about increasing our average creativity? Or are we talking about the ability to tap into that creativity and productivity at will?
Whatâs important to remember here, is that your ability to do your best work is something that is always going to peek and wane over time. Sometimes you will find that you are able to maintain concentration, that you can come up with great ideas and that you churn out large quantities of work in no time at all. Then at other times youâll find that you canât focus, that no breakthroughs are forthcoming and that you spend entire days sitting in front of your monitor/desk staring blankly and getting nothing done.
Perhaps one of the easiest ways to improve the quality of your work then and the experience of completing said work, would be to focus on controlling whenyou get those bursts of creative inspiration so that they coincide with the times you need to do the work. Rather than killing yourself trying to rewire your brain and develop more power, perhaps you could just better apply it to make use of the abilities you already have.
You Canât Force Productivity
This is something that a lot of performance coaches will focus on when helping businessmen and women to get the most out of their brains. It is typical of the average âtype Aâ personality to want to continuously drive forward, and when they hit a roadblock with their productivity their solution is often thus to simply try and force themselves to overcome it and to succeed.
Actually though this will usually have the precise opposite effect of tiring them out, creating more resistance and leading to frustration and an ultimate lack of productivity. This is a particularly big problem too with entrepreneurs who are prone to pushing themselves even after their nine-to-five is over. If work isnât forthcoming they will often see the solution as being simply to keep trying until they can get that work done⌠even if it means effectively squeezing blood out of a stone. In an office environment the equivalent is clocking off at 10pm, which is becoming an increasingly unhealthy aspect of the culture surrounding office jobs.
Again this tends to just make matters worse. While you might manage to get some work done at 2am that day, youâll then be going to bed wired, late and stressed. Youâll wake up with insufficient sleep and your brain will be almost incapable of completing any meaningful work until youâve rested. Which you wonât let it⌠And even if you manage to continue this cycle of grinding yourself down every day, youâll find that the quality of the work just isnât there and that you donât have the same spark of enthusiasm that equates to the best output.
Understanding Your Ebbs and Flows
The better solution then is to acknowledge that your creativity and productivity are going to naturally ebb and flow, and to focus on getting that cycle to line up with the times when you want the most work. Think of this as a similar process to your body clock â the times you eat, the times you sleep and the external cues you get coming in all combine to create a body clock that dictates when youâll feel awake and when youâll feel tired. Your brain works in the same way, in that it can only work optimally for a set period of time and thus needs periods of rest in between if you are going to get the very most from it.
So scheduling in rest from the stress of everyday life is important, but just as important is the ability to make sure that that rest is high quality and that it will actually mean a break from work-related thoughts and other kinds of thoughts that might tire you out.
The Most Important RuleâŚ
The most important rule to this end, is that you need to switch off mentally after a certain time. Make the decision that come 5pm, 6pm or 7pm, to turn off the computer and to turn your brain off from stressful and work-related thoughts as well.
The problem is that once we go home, many of us end up living in a kind of limbo where weâre âhalfâ working and half resting. Weâre not doing any productive, so we may as well be resting, but instead weâre staying on alert in case we decide to work later, or just because we canât stop our minds from churning over the dayâs events.
Even if you suspect you are going to work again later, learn to switch off completely and to stop worrying for a few hours when you get in. If you struggle to do that, then try setting an alarm to go off in an hour or two and tell yourself that until you hear that alarm thereâs really no point in stressing.
Helping Yourself to Switch Off
If that isnât enough to help you truly switch off, then you might need to learn better mental discipline. You can do this by trying meditation which revolves around the ability to direct your thoughts as you wish and to quiet your internal monolog and chatter. The more you practice the better youâll get at being âonâ when necessary and being âoffâ the rest of the time.
And if meditation isnât your thing, then what can work almost as well is to find something that you really enjoy and find relaxing and to focus on that instead. For me itâs playing Sonic the Hedgehog, for you it might be knitting or reading a good book. As you focus youâll find these have an almost meditative effect in just the same way.
Ending and Starting Your Day
How you end and start your working day are also two very important factors to this end. A common mistake is to start the day by answering e-mails, which immediately puts you in a stressed and reactive state of mind rather than letting you capitalise on the rest and relaxation youâve from gotten from sleeping. The first thing you should do when you get to work or boot up in the morning is to continue with a job you were working on yesterday â now with the added benefit of a fresh mind and a cup of coffee.
Likewise you should think carefully about how you end your day. End your day by answering stressful e-mails and you will be cementing that feeling of stress and inability as you sleep. Conversely, if you can end your day on a âhighâ that will then carry over into evening.
Many prolific writers, entrepreneurs and other creative types will recommend ending your days with something âhalf completeâ. While this might seem counterintuitive, this can actually have many benefits â encouraging you to start work right away the next day, and at the same time letting your unconscious mind work on solutions while you rest and sleep. This is an ideal way to take literally the concept of âsleeping on itâ.
Understanding Yourself
These tips should help you to better control your flow of productivity and creativity and to harness your full potential. To an extent though you are going to find that you have natural tendencies in these areas and that this is all much easier if you try to create a workflow that works with your natural rhythms. Identify at which points you work best during the day and then move tasks around so that those moments coincide with the most important and challenging jobs.
The most important thing of all is really just that you acknowledge your need to rest and rejuvenate your creativity, and that you make the effort to start experimenting with how you work and how you can get the most from yourself. Often just âpushing harderâ is the least beneficial thing you can do.

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Don't Waste Your Time on Inspiration
You surf. You tumbl. You pin. You FFFFound. You âcurateâ popular, proven work. You find hundreds of niche, beautiful examples of success. Dozens of formulas that look like they can be applied to your project. You show your team and clients work that other people have created.
When youâre learning to think for yourself, this is fantastic. But when youâre producing creative work, itâs not. That is not the creative process.
The more you look for inspiration: the less you make. When you put that much energy into watching other people make: you begin to think itâs impossible to do great work of your own.
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You have to dive in. You have to make yourself uncomfortableâŚ.Where do you start? Start by sharing your point of view. Talk to your friends, your team. Whomever. The moment your idea is in the world, itâs going to get pushed around a lot. If it continues to make sense, then you have an opportunity. And you made itâyou made your own opportunity.
-David Mikula
Inspiration is often a way to make ourselves feel creatively energized and busy, but when it comes to being more productive or creative, thatâs where the activity falls short. The hours you spend browsing sites for creative inspiration is time you could have instead spent making your own ideas and learning from the experience.
The best creative work doesnât come from time spent looking for inspiration, it comes as a result of tirelessly generating, sharing, and exploring ideas.
Getting the creative process going
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Creativity is not a cure for the world
Albert Einstein once asserted: âI have no special talent, I am only passionately curious.â
Steve Jobs famously quoted a phrase from the back cover of the once popular The Whole Earth Catalog which read: âStay Hungry. Stay Foolish.â
The great author and education researcher, Sir Ken Robinson, exclaimed: âCuriosity is the engine of achievement. Curiosity is the engine of achievement.â
These historically creative geniuses all highlight the importance of curiosity. Not the pursuit of revolution or innovation even, but simply the notion to âstay hungry and foolish.â
Yet we live in a culture that escalates the value of creativity into something itâs not; a world-changing force, a responsibility we owe the Universe.
For many, weâve been led into believing the world is a disease and one of the best cures for it is creativity.
Why arenât we all like Einstein, or Jobs, O'Keefe, Picasso, or Musk, we are asked incessantly. If we arenât finding ways to cure cancer, to propel mankind forward, or to solve global problems, does that mean we are floundering our brainâs tremendous capacity for imagination and problem solving?
For a long time I didnât have a good answer to this question.
Friends and peers would ask me whatâs holding us, as a civilization, back from the limitless genius we could all possess if only we could think like Einstein or Edison!
But now I think I have a reasonable answer:
âGenuine creativity comes from a sense of curiosity, not the will to conduct some marvelous act or revolutionize the world.â
Curiosity, exploration, encountering and discovering what others have overlooked, thatâs how the most novel and useful ideas come about. But when we see what creativity can do, itâs no wonder we ask why we arenât constantly utilizing it for bigger or bolder things.
The answer I have come up with is: thatâs the wrong question to ask.
Creativity has never been about changing the world or remarkable innovation. At itâs heart, creativity is about curiosity and uncertainty, little else.
Thatâs not to say that creativity canât enable us to think of wild solutions to global-scale problems. Itâs just that, if we set out to do those things, we may have missed the point and end up falling flat as a result. The drive to change the world must come separately from creativity, not as a motivator for it.
The point is to be curious, foolishly so, as Steve Jobs would say. Without that curiosity â behind ulterior motives and a forced sense of wonder, for example â creativity simply cannot thrive.
You donât have to want to change the world to be creative. And you shouldnât feel ashamed if youâre not changing the world with your ideas.
Find what you are passionately curious about and go do that. To quote one of my favorite artists and writers, Jonathan Harris:
âDonât do what you think the world needs; do what you love. The world needs more people who do what they love.â
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Brb New York
Itâs the impeccable off-duty style of locals. Itâs the co-existence of the grunge and the glamour. Itâs the fashion headquarters, a world-stage for production, and a creative heart that never skips a beat.Â
Itâs New York City.Â
It was my recent visit this winter that cemented the fact I would one day call her home. Whether itâs working off tips at a bar, or playing dress ups as an Intern for the rest of my life- no cares are given. Rarely do I find myself leaving a place, dreading the thought of home. Sadly this year, that feeling became a reality- and hence, iâm counting every second until iâm back there again. This year we stayed in The Standard East Village- itâs like the teenager of New Yorkâs hotel family, not enriched with enough history to be considered a classic, yet lacking the youth of what Brooklyn is boasting. Itâs the city you can spark conversation about, itâs the ice-breaker for meeting strangers, and itâs a place so rich in the arts- they almost all call NYC home.Â
Like the seasonâs itself, extremes exist in harmony. Dali and Picasso grace the walls of the Guggenheim, while Koons erects metallic puppies in MoMaâs lobby. Just as the rich and poor share a seat on the Subway, and despite her extroverted personality, Manhattan accepts them all.
Before visiting New York I find myself jotting down a minute-by-minute agenda, but in reality thereâs no place for a schedule. Youâll find yourself in shops you have discovered through their windows, and snow storms will bring a halt to all sense of time and place, forcing a three-hour coffee date at Cafe Gitane, and before you know itâs Standard Bingo Night. This year we ventured into Williamsburg, Brooklyn, and with the Canon in hand we attempted to blend into the hipsteresque neighbourhood. First stop breaky (or Brunch, they say) at Egg, a cafe with enough eggs to feed the entire borough, and the best drip coffee for two (or three). We followed Wythe Ave and embraced all it had to offer- The Brooklyn Artists Library, The Wythe Hotel, and even a tour around Brooklyn Beerâs Brewery. So please, I urge you next time to take that extra stop off the L line and find yourself looking back, rather than up, at the infamous skyline you travelled so far to see.Â
Amongst the pristine fashion houses and art royalty, Central Park remains gridlocked on all sides by penthouses and ghettos alike. The neighbourhoods of New York are defined by a feeling, not a look- and the more variety you expose your sense too, the more you can appreciate the spark in them all. Each have their own personality. You have your coffee-lover, fashion-obsessed student paying top dollar as a SoHo tenant. Or your older, more lived (less travelled) and immaculately groomed Upper East Side resident. In between them both there is less room to move, breeding the Midtown up-tight, business-driven woman, who lives half the time in London and the other at the local drinking hole. All stereotypes aside, itâs this perfect gridlock and all itâs history which makes Manhattan what it is today- an island in which 1.6 million people call home.Â
Time in New York flies faster than a Boxing Day sale at Barneyâs, and iâm addicted to the feeling. While itâs not the relaxing holiday you daydream of, it is the busiest ten days of your life. Itâs for the girl who likes the cold, can handle the heat and considers peak hour her favourite time of the day. For most, itâs a place theyâve only dreamed of through screens,  so when reality hits and youâre on the move, like the Silver Screen, youâre a movie star by day, and a rock star by night.
  Itâs the type of fun that canât be crammed into an Instagram photo or 16 gigabytes in your bag, and for that, I thank you New York City, brb, iâll see you soon.Â
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- NEW YORK - Cafe Gitane Two hands nyc Happy bones The Butcherâs Daughter The Egg Shop Jacks Wife Freda Saxon and Parole Gasoline coffee Momofuku Milk Bar Cafe Select Dean and Deluca Egg (Brooklyn) Balthazar Bakery Dough donuts (Brooklyn) Russ and Daughters Mast Brothers Chocolate (Brooklyn) - Restaurants - The Standard Bar and grill (especially Sunday night bingo) Miss Lilyâs Narcissa (inside Standard East Village) Balthazarâs Momofuku noodle bar Mercer Street kitchen La Esquina (Brooklyn and Manhattan) Bond Street Sushi Rubi Rosa Pizza Shake Shack Reynard (Wythe hotel Brooklyn) Eataly ABC Cocina Potlikker (Brooklyn) - BARs - Momofuku Ma Peche Standard Bar East village The Wren The Dead rabbit Wythe hotel (Brooklyn) Brooklyn beer brewery (Brooklyn) Living Room (Standard Highline) - NIGHTLIFE - Catch Le Bain
STANDARD BINGO NIGHT Upside Down - SHOPPING - Dover street markets Opening Ceremony Calypso Moscot Taschen books Chelsea flea markets Rag & Bone CatBird (Brooklyn) Reformation Isabel Marant Brooklyn artist bookshop (Brooklyn) Missioni jewellery Saturdayâs surf nyc Acne studios Barneyâs New York (co-op level 7) Fivestory Creatures of Comfort Attrium - SITES - Central Park ice skating High line Meatpacking district Rockerfeller centre lookout Brooklyn day trip Brooklyn flee markets Chelsea markets (Japanese tacos and mexican) Times Square Broadway shows (Book of Mormons) - ART - Whitney Gallery Guggenheim Museum The New museum The Met gallery The MOMA MOMA PS1
Lost(u)
And today is come. Im writing this as a reminder for me myself. Just for a reminder how confusing the feeling that comes along. I hope i will always remember today as a good thing for us
when friendship stop being enough.
It is funny how i lose my apetite so sudden. Well maybe, just maybe it is because of you
Canât Help Falling In Love With You (Cover) - Fleet FoxesÂ
"Shall I stay?
Would it be a sin?
But I canât help falling in love with youâŚâ

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Well.. im officially heart broken now. >.<"
"Can we talk in private before i go?" "Sure" as we walk aside put a distance from friends of us "Mmm.. i wanna say something. Mm " as i said stuttering in the begining "What it's all about?" "Just listen first, mm.. i'll make it short and clear. Well.. well i think.. i've been growing some feeling on you. I think it is bigger then friendship.." " i know it is so wrong, it is weird, i dont have a white skin as yours, small moon smilling eyes as yours. Im not chinnese at all. Even we believe in so different ways. The worst is we have lot things in common.. sexually you know. I know it is so wrong." "But listen, i just wanna tell you about my feeling. Nothing more or less. Im sorry i have this kind of feeling towards you. But i hope we can still remain as friend." "Well.. i'll get going so i can clear my feeling out. So you dont have to be worried. I hope very much we can still remain as a good friend. Like really" ......