theres people who are extremely open about their identity
theres people who prefer to keep their identity to themselves or to those close to them
theres people out there who dont know what their own identity is
theres people out there who identify as outside the gender binary
theres people out there who dont feel romantic love or attraction, and prefer platonic relationships
theres people out there who desire to be in a relationship with multiple people at once, consensually
theres people out there whos labels they use are contradictive to eachother
theres people out there who choose to label themselves with microlabels and xenopronouns and complex identities, even if people get confused
theres people out there whos queer identities extend past gender or sexuality
theres people out there who use dozens of names and pronouns and labels
theres people out there who identify as non human, as mechanical beings, as objects, as animals
theres people out there who identify as fictional characters
and theres people out there who dont understand but choose to support that anyways, and theres people who will go to any lengths to support others even when their identities differ
and its none of your business what another person identifies as.