Fake it till you make it

If life is a never ending loop of dirty dishes and laundry then that means life is a never ending loop of home cooked meals and comfy clean clothes

what is it about getting older that makes every interaction feel so fucking sentimental? like saying goodbye to people used to just be a “see you around” sort of thing, and now it’s a whole declaration of love for the person and the position they’ve held in my life condensed into a hug or a “take care of yourself” 

my ultimate fantasy is having a brain that lets me enjoy being alive

I mean yeah communication is key but so is a sense of understanding. Because if I tell you something and you're not willing to see where I'm coming from, then what's the point of telling you anything.

when a person tells you that you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t

Being 20+ is basically a constant question of “am I doing enough” and the answer always being a solid ‘no’

You have to love yourself more than you love him.

nobody goes through more $hit than a good woman that’s down to do anything for the wrong man

normalise leaving after the first red flag. i won’t do it but you guys should