Shay

"men, women, and they/thems" man if only there was a word for people who dont identify exclusively as binary men or women. damn. if only

shoutout to everyone dealing with. thhe fucking difficulty

a butchfemme dynamic isn’t about the butch doing everything for the femme or vice versa… it’s both of us looking at each other and saying “you do so much for me, let me take care of you” and i think that’s so important to recognize. you shouldn’t be doing everything for your partner without them giving you everything in return. the ways you spoil each other might look completely different and that’s okay, but one person shouldn’t be carrying the brunt of the relationship. that’s not what being butchfemme means.

“are u okay?” no i need more money

one thing about me is i’m gonna go lay down

in the mood to get tattooed

one of the best things about cats is that sometimes they'll just purr because youre around them

you have to remember jow special it is that when a black cat loves the sunbeams so much , its fur will get more colours because ghe sun loves it back . you cant let yourself forget