Let's Reflect

As part of our growth , when we grow up in our 20's - I personally felt we r i can say one of the most vulnerable people . I can say all of them who truly want to grow will definitely be . I am also part of it - In the process of what I wanted to get like UPSC CSE clearing , I cannot say i became more vulnerable . But I can genuinely say , the vulnerabilities that are part of my personality and inner self , tended to get more appear visibly in my behavior more in these times . Often , I want others to be with me , I want others to help me out and solve my own problems . I want others to come along with me to long drive if I soon get opportunity to like if i start earning soon . I often tend to think that others will always wait for myself to come along in life just like a typical socialist behavior . Sorry for tagging that tag , but it is true when we see in that political terminology angle . This is self reflection of myself . Often , Now , when i look back and think , i think , it could have been much better to take the life of my own , into my own hands like a beautiful baby respect it even if it had imperfections and not so good qualities as per so called societal standards , let go off the mistakes and bind upon the learning that i can take up and move forward . This could have been much better - : Always , it is said , that It is never too late to change in the right direction in our life - I will take up the charge of changing my life from here on - I will progress from here on - taking one single day one single step at a time . A self note - to myself is that I am not incomplete with or without the presence or absence of certain people in my life - A day truly might come when everyone do leave this beautiful place of earth . May be a day or two or year or two late or early . So jithnaa ho sake uthnaa hi achaa karenge - Uthnaa hi achaa rahenge - : There is no requirement to be emotional about every thing in life - I think I build from here on jo bhi past me ho - usko leave karke - I will learn to take the things as the way they come not passively but actively . Also , I always respect myself to be a good human being in my own self .

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Unnao , Hathras ( U P ) , Delhi nirbhaya , Kolkata rg kar , Kamduni ( WB ) Muchumarri ( Andhra ) , Badlapur ( MH ) Hema committee report [ malayalam film industry - kerala ] and so on and so on and so on :

Can I tell one thing -:- About INVISIBLE RAPES in this country

Promotions or recruitments in corporate companies or even good marks in an exam corrected or taught be male teacher or professor or lecturer for a GIRL STUDENT

Leaving away a woman riding a bike or car without helmet or wearing belt - Why ? See reasons

Because of skin tone , So called perfect ideal shapes , ideal hair , superb scent , wearing superb costumes which arouse invisible feelings in that so- called Men . If I count these - there will 10-12 crore rapes per minute in this country :- not physically but psychologically .. Why so .?

Leave this :- Tell me one woman in real life who falls in love Because of UNDER WEAR OF A MAN or Perfume used by men or Height of a man or Branded watches or car or bike or any material things used by man e.t.c. Why so .?

Leave this :- Tell me about the items we TRULY FELT great when the advertisements we liked a lot because of specifications specified for any particular product instead of seeing the gender who is advertising IT ..

Why so .? ( Objectification of women )

See the corporate companies product sales :- Many would have been - Running in great profits when their products have bit of female gender visibility in any aspect like audio format or video visibility format or Image format :- Why is that so .? ( No data to add credibility to this statement )

Also check on the movies which have trailers with unnecessary ITEM SONGS - with more like a stupid male macho stories with no objectivity at all but got 100 Cr like that just like that . Why do they put female aspect in that angle even in trailers as well ..?

Why so .? ( Commodification of woman )

Last but not the least , Check out the leaders we elect or political candidates getting fielded in the elections by these political parties . Check out the recent data of ADR -saying that almost - 150 [ approx ] - Sitting MP's and MLA's are in the temples of largest democracy in the world - i.e in PARLIAMENT AND IN STATE LEGISLATURES .

Why so ?

We r culturally inherently subconsciously designing humanity such a way one gender is always great than the other dude .

Why so ..? Think once . Reflect . Introspect .

Damage is not when one incident comes out and we get on roads ...Today it is rg kar Tomorrow it can be our place or any place in this country or even our home as well. ( Might be ) ( No Hate - But issue is deeply rotten )

If we talk about these , whole HUMANITY have to sit on roads on daily basis

Okay bro ? R u criticizing the medicos now ? Nope Never who am I to criticize any person or any institution ??

I am just a wanderer who is wandering this world with OPEN MIND and EYES WIDE OPENED to know and see THINGS AS MUCH CLEARLY AS POSSIBLE :-

What to do now then .? Yaar, I don't have one stop solutions dude

But - one thing - :- 1: RIGHT PARENTING AND RIGHT TEACHERS CAN ADDRESS a bit . 2: Any sport which can make a child sweat out a lot and compete with any genders ..but based on techniques of that sport and competitive spirit built inside that child . 3: Self defense tactics as part of education curriculum for every student in this country :

Counter to Few critics :- Right parenting mean : Respecting each other and doing all work without any iota of gender based discrimination or gender based work like only women need to do house chores kind of :

Purely on logic and rationale with objectivity .. I am not a hard core feminist to say one child has to given birth by men as well ..

Yaar don't find where I will do mistake and get picked up and kick me wherever you wanted to . If u want , come out yaar - Even without post also we can lovely fight each other and have a chilled beer at night with full moon and nearby lake in my home in Bengaluru .🤣

Secondly , why r u asking self defense training ? Are you saying inherently that women are weaker - Bro , No - NOT at all :

Yaar , In a country with huge malnutrition , anemia , newly upcoming adversity i.e over nutrition and obesity , till what time we pretend that our kids including even ourselves are already became , going to become are currently an IRON MAN OR WONDER WOMAN OR SUPER MAN : [ see reports of lancet survey of 4200 steps average , NFHS 5 surveys ]

Yaar , still u don't believe me - do one thing - just run for 1km without shoes in any ground and see what your potential or your kids potential is : Think once - If that much physical strength is not there , then how can you protect yourself from any enemy who might be of any gender : so stop pretending you are iron man or wonder woman : you are you : If you have any doubt , just go, run see : what is your capability :?

Self protection - is not any gender thing -: It is inherent to every species on this planet to survive from any threat from any other animal from different or same species : It is even taught to every kid of animals as well - haven't you seen MUFASA [ THE LION KING ] ?

Even If any one criticises me harshly ruthlessly unnecessarily , I don't take it as negative thing - I will look it as a blessing from GOD to let me learn on MY OWN on how to be emotionally intelligent , people's skills , Calmness despite being storm

These are all the lessons no person or no university teaches you . They nights perhaps teach you in ideal conditions but TRUE LESSONS COMES FROM REAL RAW LIFE

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