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this is like scrooge seeing his own grave in a christmas carol

Love reblogging a picture of Tumblr’s grave on Tumblr

here is a document of antiracist resources for white people that is not too overwhelming and is organized by where you are in your journey of becoming antiracist

Loved her in this movie growing up.

Don’t be ashamed of walking around with an ugly old man. be ashamed of walking around with a young handsome one that wants to fuck you but not pay your bills

being called a gold digger is literally not an insult. Yes, I deserve the very best and would only dating men with money because I don’t deserve to be with a broke men. Yes, I want to be spoiled. Yes, I deserve to be treated like the princess that I am. Sorry.

The toxic part of the leveling up culture, really made you believe that in order to be a high value woman, you should constantly talk about your standards. Listen to me: you don’t have to tell anyone about what you want. You don’t have to post that you expect a man to provide for everything in the relationship: just walk away from men who don’t. No explanation, not to him, not to your girlfriends. If a man starts disrespecting you, maybe makes sexual allusions while chatting, expects you to go to his home to “netflix and chill”, just don’t answer him, block him, whatever. You don’t have to say that you are a high quality woman and you have other standards. The same applies in every situation, when you say no to something because it doesn’t match your standards: you don’t need to explain yourself and saying that you have other expectations, please. Be silent about the things you want, especially on social media, especially on your personal profile. Just walk away from what doesn’t match your standards. Silently.

Social media has made us so eager to “show and tell” but there is beauty in privacy. Everything isn’t meant to be on display. It’s perfectly fine to keep some things for you.

I deserve to be spoiled and treated immaculately. I deserve to be listened to and respected. I deserve to be loved and cherished. I deserve loyalty and devotion. I will not chase a man out of desperation, loneliness, or beg to be loved for validation. I am a high value goddess and will not tolerate any less.