Subby Bambi

See a gender affirming therapist first, please. There is no 'test' to know if you are trans but there is excellent advice and encouragement to be had and it doesn't cost that much and, after all, it's worth it. A really good gender therapist can totally help you make a plan to begin HRT and transition and live the dream of your soul. Just make sure that they follow WPATH standards. That part is really important. You need a therapist who is gender affirming. Got it, doll? Luv ya.

PS - DON'T EVEN CONSIDER BUYING HORMONES/HRT SUPPLIES FROM THESE FRAUDS WE ALL SEE ON TUMBLR. VERY, VERY UNSAFE. THESE 'SELLERS' ARE DESPICABLE AND AS BAD AS THE FAKE FINDOMS WHO'VE FLOODED THIS SPACE SINCE I LEFT GIVING REAL MISTRESSES A BAD NAME. REAL MISTRESSES NEVER MESSAGE OR SOLICIT. THEY DON'T NEED YOU. YOU NEED THEM.

Translesbians looking back at the journey:

It's bittersweet how bad you wanted to be a girl when you were one the whole time.

You’re going to take your time to make me perfect and obedient and create structure and a pathway for the relationship? You’re going to take the time to teach me? Guide me? Mold me? Break me? You could do anything with your time and you are using it on me, to make me better for you, for me, and for us.