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Tools - you’ll want to start with something small like your fingers or a small anal plug. As you get more comfortable you should graduate to bigger toys. There are plenty of anal training kits that come with several plugs of various sizes. Check lovehoney.com. Also, not mandatory but anal douching is good to do before any anal play.

Lube - I recommend organic coconut oil

Relax! - THIS IS MAJOR!! You have to relax your mind and your body for training to go well. Set aside some private time so you’re not feeling rushed or anxious. Turn on some chill music, go to a private place, make ur space comfortable, smoke a J, meditate, whatever gets you extremely relaxed, do that.

I found that in the beginning, it helped for me to tease and play with my pussy, then slowly finger or toy my ass. Pussy play distracted me from the initial discomfort. Also watching myself train in the mirror distracted from the pain as well, it just turns me on like crazy.

Popping in to say Hello 💋💕